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Topic: Avoiding someone
coolguy15 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 201	Sat 02/21/09 02:05 PM
No that could turn against you in a future life!

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Sat 02/21/09 02:10 PM
i would have the guts to tell them...hey iam not interested in you. honesty is best

Almondiiz69 Joined Mon 01/05/09 Posts: 219	Sat 02/21/09 02:14 PM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? NO! I avoid/ed him because I'm NOT interested in him

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Sat 02/21/09 02:20 PM
Yeah I have it was going to complicate my relationship thats for sure...............lol

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 02/21/09 03:19 PM
No that could turn against you in a future life! probably

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 02/21/09 03:20 PM
I'm about to do that very thing and very soon.

sportster05 Joined Sun 02/15/09 Posts: 24	Sat 02/21/09 03:22 PM
wish i wouldve brushed off my ex

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Sat 02/21/09 03:25 PM
I guess so. If they are out of my league, why bother?

huskydogowner Joined Sun 08/19/07 Posts: 259	Sat 02/21/09 03:51 PM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? Yep. Those damned pesky restraining orders..........joke, joke I kid, I kid.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 02/21/09 03:55 PM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? Of course not. I stalk them.

pgh82nyc Joined Mon 01/26/09 Posts: 56	Sat 02/21/09 03:57 PM
No, my dumb ass keeps talking to them because I don't want to hurt their feelings. Ditto. I mean I don't think I've ever really avoided because I was interested in them. I mean it seems more natural to do that for alternative

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Sat 02/21/09 03:58 PM
Mirror, can I ignore you for a while?

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 02/21/09 04:37 PM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? Yes because first I wanted to wait until I was sure of my feelings. Because I think above all: love should be a choice; if they do not initiate some intense gut level interest in me I respect the choice that is made; even if it is cowardice. The most frustrating part of dateing is the man who loves from afar and wastes the gift that he has to offer from fear it will be rejected. I know that I am a strong woman and to be happy I need a man who is stronger. Someone who is not intimidated by it and wants to cherish it rather than dominate it. That man I will wait for.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 02/21/09 04:38 PM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? Yes because first I wanted to wait until I was sure of my feelings. Because I think above all: love should be a choice; if they do not initiate some intense gut level interest in me I respect the choice that is made; even if it is cowardice. The most frustrating part of dateing is the man who loves from afar and wastes the gift that he has to offer from fear it will be rejected. I know that I am a strong woman and to be happy I need a man who is stronger. Someone who is not intimidated by it and wants to cherish it rather than dominate it. That man I will wait for. When you find him, can you see if he has a brother? I couldn't have said it better myself.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Sat 02/21/09 04:40 PM Edited by durtydduck on Sat 02/21/09 04:40 PM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? happening as we speak. I wanted to marry her a couple of years ago and so did she. But circumstances changed that a year and half ago. She would call every couple of months '"I miss you lets work it out" and then nothing till 3 months later Then 7 weeks ago she did it again. but this time she continued to call and we talked hours on end every night and day. Till last Monday then nothing! oh well expected that...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 02/22/09 12:25 AM
Mirror, can I ignore you for a while? I hope not

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 02/22/09 12:26 AM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? happening as we speak. I wanted to marry her a couple of years ago and so did she. But circumstances changed that a year and half ago. She would call every couple of months '"I miss you lets work it out" and then nothing till 3 months later Then 7 weeks ago she did it again. but this time she continued to call and we talked hours on end every night and day. Till last Monday then nothing! oh well expected that... bummer

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 02/22/09 12:26 AM
Have you ever avoided someone because you were interested in them? Of course not. I stalk them. me2 JB

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Sun 02/22/09 12:31 AM
I only avoid people that bore me

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 02/22/09 12:52 AM
I only avoid people that bore me Im gonna start doing that