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Topic: LDR.......
Tanzkity's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:44 AM

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****!!!bigsmile



You are a hard one arent you...............i cant remember what you said up there and im too lazy to look it up

Mentork's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:45 AM

laugh laugh laugh but I am not a lesbian I am thinking of more of men................


Ah, but if you where bi it would be the perfect solution wouldn't it?

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Thu 01/08/09 12:46 AM
HAHAAAAAAAAAAA I knew you would like that one tanz!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:46 AM

I think you should



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****!!!bigsmile


noway laugh

I'm sorry i couldn't help it

*Walks away from thread*

keepthehope's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:46 AM


Mentork's advice?


Have hot lezzy sex and video tape it, then send it to him as a gift. ^_^


You get "releved" and you get to keep your man.


^__________^



laugh laugh laugh but I am not a lesbian I am thinking of more of men................


Sweety, if you are thinking of other men, maybe you need to figure out if you really love him or not. If you really love him, then you wouldn't be thinking about other men. Maybe that is the real reason you are looking at other men, that you don't love him. Take a closer look at what you feel, before making any other decisions.

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:46 AM



Well, is sowing your oats going to be worth risking the love of your life for? That is what you need to ask yourself. Will they truly understand that you needed to do that? On the other hand, would you accept it if he is in South Carolina "sowing his oats"?

Also are you sure that the people who are your friends advising you to do this, really, truly have your best interests at heart... or are they alone themselves and could really care less about the love you have seemed to have found for yourself? Just some questions to ask yourself...

Remember the old saying... "with friends like these, who needs enemies..."


I totally understand that but I just dont want to end up having a second divorce and I actually think that he needs to as well do the same if we both agree.............


And you don't think cheating on him wouldn't make him want to divorce you if he can't trust you. He would find out, because someone would say something at some time. If you doubt the relationship now, then you shouldn't be with him at all.


This has nothing to do with my relationship and him this has to do with me..........I had some problems about me partying with my first marriage and I dont want to end up doing that again...........

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:47 AM

HAHAAAAAAAAAAA I knew you would like that one tanz!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh

keepthehope's photo
Thu 01/08/09 12:56 AM




Well, is sowing your oats going to be worth risking the love of your life for? That is what you need to ask yourself. Will they truly understand that you needed to do that? On the other hand, would you accept it if he is in South Carolina "sowing his oats"?

Also are you sure that the people who are your friends advising you to do this, really, truly have your best interests at heart... or are they alone themselves and could really care less about the love you have seemed to have found for yourself? Just some questions to ask yourself...

Remember the old saying... "with friends like these, who needs enemies..."


I totally understand that but I just dont want to end up having a second divorce and I actually think that he needs to as well do the same if we both agree.............


And you don't think cheating on him wouldn't make him want to divorce you if he can't trust you. He would find out, because someone would say something at some time. If you doubt the relationship now, then you shouldn't be with him at all.


This has nothing to do with my relationship and him this has to do with me..........I had some problems about me partying with my first marriage and I dont want to end up doing that again...........



But it does have to do with your relationship with him, because if you were happy with him, you wouldn't have the need to go somewhere else to find what you are looking for. As far as the partying that you had problems with, you are an adult and can make the decision to do something you know would not be good for the relationship that you have with him.

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