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i've talked to different people about this and everyone seems to have a
different opinion on the subject. i personally don't think that it is acceptable to ask a woman out while she is working but alot of people disagree. i have done it twice but that is because i didn't think i would get another chance. if i could get some feedback from both the men and the women it would be appreciated. |
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I think the work place is a great way to meet singles. However because
of the rules in the work place are it is impossible to do. So I don't bother. I was recently accused of sexual harassment at a job I had that I didn't do. So I quit. I have always felt uneasy about asking women out, and now because of the sexual harassment laws. I don't even try to look at women at work. It sucks but that's life. |
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Ghost brings up a good point about the whole sexual harassment issue.
That in mind, I'd say approaching a woman you work with must be handled extremely carefully...However, if you don't work with them by all means approach them. But then again, I guess it would depend on where she was working, you know? I mean, hitting on a cop in the middle of a bust or a surgeon with her hands in someone's guts. -=x |
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i have a rule about not dating women at work but i was actually meaning
something like, you are out running errands or something and you come across a woman who is working. you are not at your job but you are at hers for some reason. would it be appropriate to ask her out or for her phone # while she is working? |
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i have never minded when i get approached at my job but i have always
felt a little funny about approaching someone else while they are working, i just don't want to interrupt. |
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LOL Metal.
Well, I had a chance to go for a siniorita who was student at a college I was working at and the little notion of loosing my job was a great cold shower. so it doesn't have to be a co-worker either. |
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I have actually done that. I approached a girl while she was working at
a retail kiosk. Unfortuneately she said she had a boy friend at the time. Gee! don't they always. lol I know a lot of times they say that just to get rid of ya. lol |
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yeah, the only two times i have done it i was rejected. the no's were
not the reason that i don't feel it is appropriate though. |
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Hi again. Lets see. Yes, its possible with extreme care. Lots of ifs. If
your paths cross frequently? Is she open to lite conversation see if she might be free? See if she shows any interest. Or, suggest a department or shift group outing? If only for fun with your co works. You'd be more free to interact that way,and safer. |
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I ussually wait for them to ask me or show an interest in me. but still
I kinda get that peranoid feeling that my job will suffer if I indulge. I ussually get fixed up by friends so at least thats safe. |
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I prefer to live by this motto...
"Don't shit where you eat..." Just my take on it... |
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Oh wise one! Please indow us with your wisdom of that comment.LOL
I am but a mere mortal of no importance. |
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If your not working together and she is at work, I don't see what the
problem would be to ask for her #. My son has even asked when a certain young lady would be working so he could go in at that time just to ask for her #. |
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i think it's more important to remember not to eat where you shit lol
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lol...i agree with that one. Never heard it quite put in those words but
I know exactly what she means. |
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i've just had weird responses with actions like that, for some reason
they alway get freaked out like i'm gonna stalk em or something... |
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Well if that is the way she acts and don't want to give you her #, then
just say "Your loss" and move on. |
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i do but i don't particularly like them acting like that towards me. it
doesn't bother me that much but it gets irritating going up to a girl and being polite and respectful and having them act like i'm some kinda freak that is gonna try and abduct her or something, they need to get over theirselves because their phone number ain't that important to me. |
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I am not sure how to respond to that one. I have never had anything I
needed to get over, I treat everyone the way I like to be treated. |
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i wasn't talking about you though
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