Topic: How to Stop A Stalker!
dallaschase's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:29 PM
sorry to hear such.....sweet. did you catch him! stalking I mean?

Winx's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:31 PM

Seriously, Stalkers can be very dangerous. I had a neighbor who turned out to be a stalker. I found out when he knifed me the day I was packing to move out.

It's downright scary.


Yes, they are dangerous. I'm sorry that happened to you.flowerforyou

dallaschase's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:33 PM
these stalkers are all so violent.....which brings me to the conclusion they didnt want your compassion or love. what do you think they wanted?

sensualsweet's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:35 PM

sorry to hear such.....sweet. did you catch him! stalking I mean?


I had no clue he was stalking me. I found out how much he knew about me, my schedule, etc. when he came to "bid farewell" and I made the mistake of letting him in my apartment. We had talked in the past, but I never knew he was attracted to me.

I kept my head through the ordeal and was able to talk him down... neck and hand bleeding. Drove myself to police station in fear of bleeding to death on the way to hospital.

He was talking about his time in Nam and a lot of other weird stuff... freaked me out.

After I snapped him out of it, he started spouting how he loved me and didn't understand how he could hurt me.... etc. etc.

Real scary stuff.

sensualsweet's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:36 PM
Just never underestimate the potential danger of an obsession.

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:36 PM
wow sensual... that is freaky... bless your heart nothing happened... wow...

dallaschase's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:37 PM
dilusion........I see

dallaschase's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:38 PM
your stalker was dilusional and war depressed. wow......this was a very serious case

dallaschase's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:51 PM
ahhhh its great to be back!........(ella)

sloughr1's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:58 PM
Lets c, hmmmm. I got the perfect way, learn some martial arts, while you tote around your 9mm. And get yourself a few redneck friends....

sloughr1's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:59 PM
Notice what I'm holding in my picture...lol. I teach all of my female friends how to handle weapons and fight off attackers....

7z3r05's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:02 PM
i have a good way.

hang paint cans by rope in your stairway

put micro machines on the floor

put a fan behind a pile of feathers connected to a trip wire in the doorway

be sure to put tar on the basement steps and garnish one step with a nail through a roof shingle

ice the front and back stairs

put some Christmas ornaments on the floor next to the living room window

keep the change you filthy animal.

lol

beauty314's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:03 PM

these stalkers are all so violent.....which brings me to the conclusion they didnt want your compassion or love. what do you think they wanted?

control..baby...controlfrown

cityblues21's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:12 PM

i have a good way.

hang paint cans by rope in your stairway

put micro machines on the floor

put a fan behind a pile of feathers connected to a trip wire in the doorway

be sure to put tar on the basement steps and garnish one step with a nail through a roof shingle

ice the front and back stairs

put some Christmas ornaments on the floor next to the living room window

keep the change you filthy animal.

lol



Sounds like a scene from "Home Alone" laugh

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:47 PM
It can be funny to joke about but sure isn't funny when you have to go through it.

Stalking has nothing to do with genuine admiration or love it is about control and intimidation.

Sometimes there are no limits to how much a person is willing to risk to continue. Being arrested, jailed, beat up, or killed won't stop them. They don't care if they hurt others and often don't care if they cause terrible emotional, financial, or physical pain to the person they are stalking.

And when they can not have the person they are stalking there is no limit how much they are willing to do to make them miserable. I have seen houses and cars trashed, careers or businesses ruined, pets killed, and terrible injuries even murder, and people jailed sometimes for the rest of their life.

Getting a weapon and having it in your home is a serious risk of suicide, child death, robbery, and killing someone innocent.

7z3r05's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:48 PM


i have a good way.

hang paint cans by rope in your stairway

put micro machines on the floor

put a fan behind a pile of feathers connected to a trip wire in the doorway

be sure to put tar on the basement steps and garnish one step with a nail through a roof shingle

ice the front and back stairs

put some Christmas ornaments on the floor next to the living room window

keep the change you filthy animal.

lol



Sounds like a scene from "Home Alone" laugh


operation ho ho ho.

works every time.

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:18 PM
Edited by SimplyElla on Tue 12/30/08 11:18 PM

operation ho ho ho.

works every time.


You Ranggggggggg?




noway grumble wait that was a diss on me... wth! im gone


*poof*

Winx's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:37 PM

It can be funny to joke about but sure isn't funny when you have to go through it.

Stalking has nothing to do with genuine admiration or love it is about control and intimidation.

Sometimes there are no limits to how much a person is willing to risk to continue. Being arrested, jailed, beat up, or killed won't stop them. They don't care if they hurt others and often don't care if they cause terrible emotional, financial, or physical pain to the person they are stalking.

And when they can not have the person they are stalking there is no limit how much they are willing to do to make them miserable. I have seen houses and cars trashed, careers or businesses ruined, pets killed, and terrible injuries even murder, and people jailed sometimes for the rest of their life.

Getting a weapon and having it in your home is a serious risk of suicide, child death, robbery, and killing someone innocent.


That's very true, PacificStar.

freeonthree's photo
Wed 12/31/08 12:53 AM
Just tell him you use to be a man.

dallaschase's photo
Wed 12/31/08 01:43 AM
ok, I was wondering, about this control issue......if a stalker were to aquire control, are the results more than often negative? or, in some instances does allowing this control end up ok.......I realize the danger....but I am a guy. besides women stalkers do exist! I just dont think Id be able to say no to her.....is that weak?!!!