is what being treated right means, honestly. all the past "men" or should i say boys i've dated wanted only one thing from me. a good time. And sure theres some girls out there who are willing to give that out but honey i am not one of them. i used to be yeah but i was in a bad place in my life. now i've changed and i guess word gets around to guys because i do far from that.

what the hellll ?!@??!?!

I hear ya, it sucks because u r stuck with that label forever people I haven't seen in years still say things bad about me when I was down in the bottle

I heard that you wasnt like that anymore

I'm proud of you

i met a guy on here a month ago, and hes a perfect gentalman, in fact he didnt even try to kiss me or hold my hand, and i question that, as to find out hes not the agressive type and he respects me...that was awsome.. im not used to that but its about time

my Aunt waited a year before having sex with her husband of 10 years nowI only dream of that kind of love,maybe one day.........

Definetly a good one...

The girl I'm dating now told me upfront that she had a past she wasn't proud of. I didn't even let her go into details. I simply told her that we all do stuff that we aren't proud of at some point. Those of us who learn from that and grow from it are much better people for it. You can't live in the past, all that matters is the here and now. I'm thrilled to be with her, and I could care less what happened in the past. All that matters to me is that she knows I'm here now.

I really am a scoundrel.

I respect these similar traits in a woman.

There's a scoundrel-ish side to many ladies, but that doesn't keep me from being a gentleman, nor her from being wholly woman.
If you're embarrassed about your past, or present, then maybe you are avoiding the best future for your real self to grow into.
Know what fits you, and then happiness follows.

First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.

it all boils down to the old saying...."boys say i love you to have sex and girls have sex to hear i love you"....boys and girls are wired differently!

Whut? What's with "a detachable showerhead?" Am I giving away that I've led a sheltered life again?

pretty muuuch

OH Crap... my fingers got a head of my brain. That shouldn't be in my post. I came back to edit and can't...

Bottom line is we male and female decide on how we are going to be treated no one can do that for us.

I can design a comfort-fit shower head, just for you...as a friend.

Being treated right means somebody not pushing you into something you don't want to do.

**** i meant to say

why have a showerhead when you can have the real thing? *inquiring minds want to know*