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| Topic: Ask whats wrong or just let it go? | |
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evaluate how much actual history you have with said person, the nature, and relationship, professional/personal , how clear were the agreements, how obvious is the avoidance. call. email. maybe even notify local authorities if you know they are in any way a health risk, find out if anyone you know in common knows how they are. if avoidance is obvious, that is a message in itself. my call is to respect that, for a reasonable period, and i have to admit i would like to know that any person i shared myself intimately with , would have the respect for me as well to give some communication, even if to say they had no words. sometimes life is overwhelming in ways we are unprepared for, sometimes we surprise ourselves as we wake up one morning and don't recognize who is looking back in the mirror, we don't want to expose someone we love to our own internal confusion...no excuses ...it just happens...it's plainly human.  Very thoughtful advice
Yeah, she's good! 
Perhaps I should call her. 
good idea
It wasn't avoidance though...I was just busy killing off useless brain cells for a week.  
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depends on if that person already has a habit of saying they are going to call and then not calling or if they usually call when they say they are going to,
if its the latter, then i'd call to check if everything is alright if its the first then i'll let it go , if they really wanna talk they will call me eventually |
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 If you haven't heard from a friend who was supposed to call you, do you call them up and ask what's wrong or just let it go?
I think it would depend on which one of my friends it was. If it was a person that always calls when they say they are then I would be calling them asap to make sure they were okay. If it was a person that sometimes won't call on the day they say then I would wait a few and call them. |
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hunt them down and punish them. 
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depends on if that person already has a habit of saying they are going to call and then not calling or if they usually call when they say they are going to, if its the latter, then i'd call to check if everything is alright if its the first then i'll let it go , if they really wanna talk they will call me eventually Same here.
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If you haven't heard from a friend who was supposed to call you, do you call them up and ask what's wrong or just let it go?
I think it would depend on which one of my friends it was. If it was a person that always calls when they say they are then I would be calling them asap to make sure they were okay. If it was a person that sometimes won't call on the day they say then I would wait a few and call them.  good answer
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If you haven't heard from a friend who was supposed to call you, do you call them up and ask what's wrong or just let it go?
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It depends who they are, what our relationship and agreement is, how worried I am about them....stuff like that.
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