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Topic: If you knew about an affair
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:51 PM
:smile: If you knew your best friend was having an affair, would you tell his or her spouse?:smile:

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Thu 12/25/08 12:52 PM
I would tell Perez Hilton or TMZ.com

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Thu 12/25/08 12:53 PM

:smile: If you knew your best friend was having an affair, would you tell his or her spouse?:smile:
no...but I would want to...

misstina2's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:54 PM
tough one because I believe you should break it off if you want to be with someone else but if it was my friend I would probaly feel loyalty towards my friend

seahawks's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:56 PM

:smile: If you knew your best friend was having an affair, would you tell his or her spouse?:smile:
well for me not to say anything, its gonna cost 36 monthly installments of 500.00.!!!laugh laugh laugh

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:56 PM
no...not my biz... but I would take stock and re-evaluate my friend picking process.

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Thu 12/25/08 12:57 PM
I would just tell my Boss, then the whole town would knowlaugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:58 PM

I would just tell my Boss, then the whole town would knowlaugh
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Twitch's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:59 PM
No -- it's none of my business and not my place to judge

Jtree43's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:06 PM
None of my business

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Thu 12/25/08 01:08 PM
Depends on the individual situation and the parameters involved.

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Thu 12/25/08 01:09 PM
I'd tell the other person that my friend was married. Then my friend & I would have a talk.

evian001's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:12 PM
if it was my best friend....no i wouldnt tell their spouce..but i would sure let them kno thts jacked.

cityblues21's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:30 PM
Edited by cityblues21 on Thu 12/25/08 01:35 PM
I would probably not say anything, but yet again I would re evaluate my friendship with this person. If they are my best friend and are doing things that I consider wrong or immoral... how could I continue to see them as a person I want to hang out with... if I continued to do so after that then that would mean I am accepting of that type of behaviour. And who knows when they may decide to cheat with your significant other if they were inclined to do so?

squonk's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:31 PM
Do I get to have an affair with her afterwords? :)

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:35 PM
in a heart beat

I aint the one you want to learn about that kinda stuff

thats crap and rather its my business or not,I would say something to them first and if that didnt help I would make sure there spouse knew.


I would rather lose a friend,then have a friend who does that kinda stuff

no photo
Thu 12/25/08 02:07 PM
I would confront my friend and let them know I am aware of it.. and if I know probably someone else knows they are playing a dangerous game... I would suggest that they end it one way or the other... and let them know if they don't... I will.. if I am a true friend to that person then I also must be a true friend to their signifcant other.. so its a choice thing.. and deep down we all know its not right.. NOB? no its not but they made it my bussiness by not keeping it out of sight and quiet....

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Thu 12/25/08 02:08 PM
devil devil devil devil devil


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TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 12/25/08 02:21 PM
Myself I would indeed confront my friend with the issue and tell them the way I feel about it but sure they would in fact already know where my feelings stands on that issue. It would be in fact them that needs to confront there spouse that is a hard question to actually answer unless you have been there and had it happen for at times what we say we would do in fact would do the opposite instead.

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 12/25/08 02:28 PM

Myself I would indeed confront my friend with the issue and tell them the way I feel about it but sure they would in fact already know where my feelings stands on that issue. It would be in fact them that needs to confront there spouse that is a hard question to actually answer unless you have been there and had it happen for at times what we say we would do in fact would do the opposite instead.



you are very right


and I have had to confront 3 old friends that have done that.thats reason I say in a heart beat.

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