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Topic: You love someone but can't be with them
Holly4459 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 34785	Mon 12/22/08 06:39 PM
Go out and bang a few babes, drink beer, get crunk.....yeah....that'll make you feel so much better. I second this! That's how I cope with not being with Goof Oh...go make love to some snow you. I have a picture of Goof hanging up in my living room! That was not me banging the snow! Oh really? I thought you were making face down snow angels!

meanmarthajean Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2266	Mon 12/22/08 06:53 PM Edited by meanmarthajean on Mon 12/22/08 06:54 PM
True Love stays in the heart for ever Even though physically gone away in the heart it will stay Life changes and it brings much joy and pain...its just the way it is and we can't do much about it, because I know, I've tried...everything! Just hang in there...cause it will be over before you know it.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Mon 12/22/08 07:00 PM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? I loved someone with all my heart and soul. I had to let them go because I could not be with them for my own health and safety, and that of my family. I tried letting go with Love - but it was too hard to do because of the way they treated me and mine in the end. Today, I am working on myself, focusing on what I need to do to function in the world. It is/was very hard, but I have to forget them and not think about them if I will be able to move on. No, I can't do it alone. Not without the help of friends. I am grateful for those that have reached out to me and been there for me now, and over the years.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Mon 12/22/08 07:11 PM
Go out and bang a few babes, drink beer, get crunk.....yeah....that'll make you feel so much better. I second this! That's how I cope with not being with Goof That's about the same way I cope with being WITH goof

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Mon 12/22/08 07:12 PM
if you can't be with the one you love honey,love the one your with doo doot doo doot doo doot dah doot.

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Tue 12/23/08 12:38 AM
What are the reasons you can't be with them? I still care very deeply about my ex-bf, but there isn't any way to be with him because he doesn't know what he wants. That is very different than not being able because of distance.

squonk Joined Thu 12/11/08 Posts: 390	Tue 12/23/08 01:23 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? in a physical state or both a physical and an emotional state? I don't believe distance is the reason for it not to work out, but if there's no way for an emotional state to be there, I just move on. I can't make others feel the way I do.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 12/23/08 01:36 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!!

Ron1218 Joined Sun 11/30/08 Posts: 1246	Tue 12/23/08 01:40 AM
showers Gypsy with kittens You're totally right

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 12/23/08 01:42 AM
showers Gypsy with kittens You're totally right oHHHHHHHHHHH kitties!!!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 12/23/08 01:54 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!! Reading alot of Tony Robbins there?....eh Gypsy?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 12/23/08 01:57 AM Edited by Gypsy41 on Tue 12/23/08 01:58 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!! Reading alot of Tony Robbins there?....eh Gypsy? No.....havent had a lot of free time to read. I have in the past read alot of different books on different subjects. But its what I truly believe. That we are the reason....we are the ones who stop ourselves from getting what we want. Ive put this into practice and I know it works!!

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Tue 12/23/08 02:00 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? Love them from afar. I got friends that I will probably never meet but I still love them.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 12/23/08 02:01 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? Love them from afar. I got friends that I will probably never meet but I still love them. uh oh!!! You said probably never meet them. Self prophesizing right there!!! Negative!!!!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 12/23/08 02:01 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!! Reading alot of Tony Robbins there?....eh Gypsy? No.....havent had a lot of free time to read. I have in the past read alot of different books on different subjects. But its what I truly believe. That we are the reason....we are the ones who stop ourselves from getting what we want. Ive put this into practice and I know it works!! I always say...."Practice what you preach". And, I actually agree with you. Possibly, you might not can be with someone now. But in five years? Ten years? It's possible.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 12/23/08 02:14 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!! Reading alot of Tony Robbins there?....eh Gypsy? No.....havent had a lot of free time to read. I have in the past read alot of different books on different subjects. But its what I truly believe. That we are the reason....we are the ones who stop ourselves from getting what we want. Ive put this into practice and I know it works!! I always say...."Practice what you preach". And, I actually agree with you. Possibly, you might not can be with someone now. But in five years? Ten years? It's possible. I know, that if a person wants something bad enough then they can achieve it. IF......AND only if they are willing. Its really not that hard. I believe that we can all have everything we want and more. The power of the mind is a great thing!!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 12/23/08 02:15 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!! Reading alot of Tony Robbins there?....eh Gypsy? No.....havent had a lot of free time to read. I have in the past read alot of different books on different subjects. But its what I truly believe. That we are the reason....we are the ones who stop ourselves from getting what we want. Ive put this into practice and I know it works!! I always say...."Practice what you preach". And, I actually agree with you. Possibly, you might not can be with someone now. But in five years? Ten years? It's possible. Are you talking about using our children as scapegoats to say we cannot be with someone unless its 5 -10 years???

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 12/23/08 07:15 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? There is no Cant in my vocabulary!!! I will see them when I can or when they can. Life is full of POSSIBILITIES!!!! The only thing stopping people from things is THEMSELVES!!! Reading alot of Tony Robbins there?....eh Gypsy? No.....havent had a lot of free time to read. I have in the past read alot of different books on different subjects. But its what I truly believe. That we are the reason....we are the ones who stop ourselves from getting what we want. Ive put this into practice and I know it works!! I always say...."Practice what you preach". And, I actually agree with you. Possibly, you might not can be with someone now. But in five years? Ten years? It's possible. Are you talking about using our children as scapegoats to say we cannot be with someone unless its 5 -10 years??? No. I'm just saying that if I say that I believe I can achieve anything I want to, no matter the obstacles....then I need to show that I "practice what I preach.". Not saying using our kids as scapegoats, although you do see that alot in society. Too many times I hear people say things like "I wanna go back to school and study art." Or, "I wanna save money so that I can purchase that car I want so bad." . People say things like this, yet they allow life to prevent it from happening. They will say "Oh...that is just a pipe dream.". Well, it's only a "pipe dream" if you let it become that. My point is that we make excuses, instead of trying to overcome life's obstacles. You may discover that you love someone, and right now, it just isn't possible for you to be with that person. But if two people truly love one another, and they truly work to be together, then why is that not possible? I don't think it is.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 12/23/08 07:22 AM
If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do? Let it go .. I've been there. Done that. Wasted 3 years of my life hoping the circumstances would change. They didn't. Never will. sigh

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 12/23/08 07:28 AM
Go out and bang a few babes, drink beer, get crunk.....yeah....that'll make you feel so much better. I second this! That's how I cope with not being with Goof That's about the same way I cope with being WITH goof