Topic: Why are guys such flakes?
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Sun 12/21/08 07:09 PM
i dont think you are, perhaps after a while boys' true colors tend to show

markc48's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:09 PM

a) No part of that post was whiny or at least it wasn't intended to be.

b) *****es? That's pretty out of line, I at least was respectful and posted what I did out of genuine curiosity.

c) I'm a big enough person to take back and revise my question. So the revised question is, why are all the guys I meet flakes?

d) Since none of you know me, it would be impossible for you to answer that. I reiterate, since you do not know me its impossible for you to judge me as whiny OR *****y. Thanks for your time though, you just made yourself seem insensitive.
I read your profile and made a couple observations. (a} you state you dont care if he doesn't have any money. (b) Its all about what kind of music he likes. But you didn't say what kind you like. and I'm thinkin you like rap.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:10 PM



c) I'm a big enough person to take back and revise my question. So the revised question is, why are all the guys I meet flakes?


You have a way of picking them what


I guess so... only the ones I'm referring to sought me out. I tried to be chill and everything. Do they run scared because I'm just that hideous? I don't think I said anything intimidating... (sigh) Maybe I just give up
your young don't give up go lesbian:smile:

stattie89's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:10 PM
I despise rap actually. Its about the only deal breaker as far as music goes.

stattie89's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:12 PM
Thanks, no any hot chicks? Lol.

Mayhem_J's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:12 PM
I'd say emo music...lol.

romeo1975's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:13 PM
well what i lack in desirability i make up with my sense of humor and my bartending skills

markc48's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:13 PM
Good no rap. Just remember it take a little money to go out on a date.:wink:

jdcolvin's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:14 PM
sperm backup floats the brain

rlynne's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:14 PM

Seriously, I want to know! Do you feel like you have to be, to maintain your image? Or is it innate? Either way... I just want to know..


they flake because you are worth more than they are willing to give..don't sell yourself short and give it time

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Sun 12/21/08 07:15 PM


brb...it didn't work....embarassed


Does some Head and Shoulders work rofl rofl


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I couldn't get the link to work!!!! But I fixed it!!!rofl

romeo1975's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:15 PM


Seriously, I want to know! Do you feel like you have to be, to maintain your image? Or is it innate? Either way... I just want to know..


they flake because you are worth more than they are willing to give..don't sell yourself short and give it time
now see i do agree with her, i sort of sell myself short on my "charm and looks" and well no more, i am who i am and if people cannot accept that then #^(& them

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Sun 12/21/08 07:15 PM

Good no rap. Just remember it take a little money to go out on a date.:wink:


I don't understand what you mean... I don't have an issue with money. It just isn't big on my list of priorities. And to further dispel speculation on my musical tastes, I'll put it out there: classic rock. That's about it. Zeppelin, Beatles, Door, Cream, Humble Pie... Emo? That's a pretty rash judgement to make, but given your previous appraisal that I'm whiny, I suppose that makes sense.

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Sun 12/21/08 07:16 PM



c) I'm a big enough person to take back and revise my question. So the revised question is, why are all the guys I meet flakes?


You have a way of picking them what


I guess so... only the ones I'm referring to sought me out. I tried to be chill and everything. Do they run scared because I'm just that hideous? I don't think I said anything intimidating... (sigh) Maybe I just give up


Well..considering where you live..that's enough to make ANY dude go flake....lol

I kid. I kid.

You aren't hideous. You are just going to have to face the fact that guys in your age group, for the most part, are flakes.

Mayhem_J's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:16 PM


Good no rap. Just remember it take a little money to go out on a date.:wink:


I don't understand what you mean... I don't have an issue with money. It just isn't big on my list of priorities. And to further dispel speculation on my musical tastes, I'll put it out there: classic rock. That's about it. Zeppelin, Beatles, Door, Cream, Humble Pie... Emo? That's a pretty rash judgement to make, but given your previous appraisal that I'm whiny, I suppose that makes sense.


It was merely a guess.

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Sun 12/21/08 07:19 PM



Good no rap. Just remember it take a little money to go out on a date.:wink:


I don't understand what you mean... I don't have an issue with money. It just isn't big on my list of priorities. And to further dispel speculation on my musical tastes, I'll put it out there: classic rock. That's about it. Zeppelin, Beatles, Door, Cream, Humble Pie... Emo? That's a pretty rash judgement to make, but given your previous appraisal that I'm whiny, I suppose that makes sense.


It was merely a guess.


Thanks, I feel less like a tool now. I apologize for calling you insensitive. :)

romeo1975's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:21 PM
ahhh see its going to be a happy ending after allflowers

special_guy's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:21 PM

Seriously, I want to know! Do you feel like you have to be, to maintain your image? Or is it innate? Either way... I just want to know..



Define what you mean by flake...

stattie89's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:23 PM


Seriously, I want to know! Do you feel like you have to be, to maintain your image? Or is it innate? Either way... I just want to know..



Define what you mean by flake...


For example, when they tell you they'd wait for you and do what amounts to a lot of traveling and juggling things just so there's a chance, and then they blow you off. Not mentioning names.. but that's about what I mean. Or just giving off the impression that they're super interested and then bailing.

markc48's photo
Sun 12/21/08 07:25 PM


Good no rap. Just remember it take a little money to go out on a date.:wink:


I don't understand what you mean... I don't have an issue with money. It just isn't big on my list of priorities. And to further dispel speculation on my musical tastes, I'll put it out there: classic rock. That's about it. Zeppelin, Beatles, Door, Cream, Humble Pie... Emo? That's a pretty rash judgement to make, but given your previous appraisal that I'm whiny, I suppose that makes sense.
I didn't say you were whiny, Guys with no money are flaky. Thats is one sure sign. No job, no money = flaky