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      when the dating get intimate and the clothes begin coming off?
 
  So how do you deal with it?  | 
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      Wouldn't be able to answer this until I find a date. I'll get back to you in a few months. 
     
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      Don't have to deal with it.  I haven't had that happen in so long ----wait I can't think that far back.  I have to read my diary and get back to you on how I use to handle that----now what year was that? 
    
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      Make sure that im in complete darkness
     
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      Yes!  I've read that dimming the lights helps!  
     
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      I agree with Imsingle ..... complete darkness!!!  
    
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      When it comes to that, shouldn't you be well enough acquainted so it doesn't really matter? That is how it worked for me, though I can't speak for others of course.
     
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     When it comes to that, shouldn't you be well enough acquainted so it doesn't really matter? That is how it worked for me, though I can't speak for others of course. I don't think the men care near as much, but I think we women are always so self-conscious about how we look that even if we've been married to someone 20+ years, there's always that little bit of insecurity that lies in most of us.  | 
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      Perhaps it is in the way we have been brought up in our time, though it is the most natural thing in the world.
     
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      JMO, but I believe tv and glamour magazines has done the "average" woman a great disservice.
     
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      Age is hard on the body of either sex.
 
  If you won't like what you see in the light; WHY would you want it, in the dark???? If a lady is interesting enough for us to get that far, I will go which ever way SHE is most comfortable. Besides, I see quite well in the dark. What I don't see, my fingers paint a very good picture.  | 
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        Edited by
        horsegirl55
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        Sat 12/20/08 12:21 PM
       
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Sage, I hope you use the washable kind of finger paints, the other is hard to get off!!!!!  | 
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      I preferr the ediable kind of finger paint.
 
  Don't like the pic, I paint, make a meal out of it. softly praying Lord, please forgive my words, I will send morte food to those starving pygmies.             
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        Edited by
        horsegirl55
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     I preferr the ediable kind of finger paint. Don't like the pic, I paint, make a meal out of it. softly praying Lord, please forgive my words, I will send morte food to those starving pygmies.             
 
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      Pics won't show?????????????????????????
 
  Must be dirty.             
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     Pics won't show????????????????????????? Must be dirty.             
Could do that but don't want to get kicked off!!!  | 
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      "guys job"????????????
 
  I would call it a "guy's pleasure."                 
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      I agree with invisible and sage on this one.  I wouldn't consider taking off my clothes for someone if didn't already have that level of self confidence and intimacy with that individual.  Sage, it's definitely part of the man's pleasure. 
      
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      Any man who would make a woman feel self-conscious isn't worth taking your clothes off for - just my opinion
     
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     wow -- I just wish I could find a date so I could worry about what I look like without clothes     
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