Topic: Anyone else feel self conscious | |
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when the dating get intimate and the clothes begin coming off?
So how do you deal with it? |
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Wouldn't be able to answer this until I find a date. I'll get back to you in a few months.
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Don't have to deal with it. I haven't had that happen in so long ----wait I can't think that far back. I have to read my diary and get back to you on how I use to handle that----now what year was that?
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Make sure that im in complete darkness
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Yes! I've read that dimming the lights helps!
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I agree with Imsingle ..... complete darkness!!!
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When it comes to that, shouldn't you be well enough acquainted so it doesn't really matter? That is how it worked for me, though I can't speak for others of course.
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When it comes to that, shouldn't you be well enough acquainted so it doesn't really matter? That is how it worked for me, though I can't speak for others of course. I don't think the men care near as much, but I think we women are always so self-conscious about how we look that even if we've been married to someone 20+ years, there's always that little bit of insecurity that lies in most of us. |
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Perhaps it is in the way we have been brought up in our time, though it is the most natural thing in the world.
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JMO, but I believe tv and glamour magazines has done the "average" woman a great disservice.
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Age is hard on the body of either sex.
If you won't like what you see in the light; WHY would you want it, in the dark???? If a lady is interesting enough for us to get that far, I will go which ever way SHE is most comfortable. Besides, I see quite well in the dark. What I don't see, my fingers paint a very good picture. |
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Edited by
horsegirl55
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Sat 12/20/08 12:21 PM
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Sage, I hope you use the washable kind of finger paints, the other is hard to get off!!!!! |
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I preferr the ediable kind of finger paint.
Don't like the pic, I paint, make a meal out of it. softly praying Lord, please forgive my words, I will send morte food to those starving pygmies. |
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Edited by
horsegirl55
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Sat 12/20/08 12:38 PM
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I preferr the ediable kind of finger paint. Don't like the pic, I paint, make a meal out of it. softly praying Lord, please forgive my words, I will send morte food to those starving pygmies. |
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Pics won't show?????????????????????????
Must be dirty. |
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Pics won't show????????????????????????? Must be dirty. Could do that but don't want to get kicked off!!! |
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When you get to that point it's part of the guys job to make her feel comfortable and not self concious.
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"guys job"????????????
I would call it a "guy's pleasure." |
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I agree with invisible and sage on this one. I wouldn't consider taking off my clothes for someone if didn't already have that level of self confidence and intimacy with that individual. Sage, it's definitely part of the man's pleasure.
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Any man who would make a woman feel self-conscious isn't worth taking your clothes off for - just my opinion
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