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Topic: Anyone else feel self conscious
Redykeulous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:57 PM
when the dating get intimate and the clothes begin coming off?

So how do you deal with it?


no photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:03 PM
Wouldn't be able to answer this until I find a date. I'll get back to you in a few months.

horsegirl55's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:21 PM
Don't have to deal with it. I haven't had that happen in so long ----wait I can't think that far back. I have to read my diary and get back to you on how I use to handle that----now what year was that?laugh

imsingle951's photo
Sat 12/20/08 04:23 AM
Make sure that im in complete darkness

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 04:24 AM
Yes! I've read that dimming the lights helps!

Hillbillie62's photo
Sat 12/20/08 09:18 AM
I agree with Imsingle ..... complete darkness!!! blushing

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 09:29 AM
When it comes to that, shouldn't you be well enough acquainted so it doesn't really matter? That is how it worked for me, though I can't speak for others of course.

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 10:40 AM

When it comes to that, shouldn't you be well enough acquainted so it doesn't really matter? That is how it worked for me, though I can't speak for others of course.


I don't think the men care near as much, but I think we women are always so self-conscious about how we look that even if we've been married to someone 20+ years, there's always that little bit of insecurity that lies in most of us.

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 10:45 AM
Perhaps it is in the way we have been brought up in our time, though it is the most natural thing in the world.

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 11:47 AM
JMO, but I believe tv and glamour magazines has done the "average" woman a great disservice.

oldsage's photo
Sat 12/20/08 11:52 AM
Age is hard on the body of either sex.

If you won't like what you see in the light; WHY would you want it, in the dark????

If a lady is interesting enough for us to get that far, I will go which ever way SHE is most comfortable.


Besides, I see quite well in the dark.
What I don't see, my fingers paint a very good picture.

horsegirl55's photo
Sat 12/20/08 12:18 PM
Edited by horsegirl55 on Sat 12/20/08 12:21 PM


Sage, I hope you use the washable kind of finger paints, the other is hard to get off!!!!!

oldsage's photo
Sat 12/20/08 12:26 PM
I preferr the ediable kind of finger paint.

Don't like the pic, I paint, make a meal out of it.


softly praying
Lord, please forgive my words, I will send morte food to those starving pygmies.

pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork tongue2 :thumbsup: winking

horsegirl55's photo
Sat 12/20/08 12:35 PM
Edited by horsegirl55 on Sat 12/20/08 12:38 PM

I preferr the ediable kind of finger paint.

Don't like the pic, I paint, make a meal out of it.


softly praying
Lord, please forgive my words, I will send morte food to those starving pygmies.

pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork tongue2 :thumbsup: winking



oldsage's photo
Sat 12/20/08 12:37 PM
Pics won't show?????????????????????????


Must be dirty.
drool drool drool drool drool tears

horsegirl55's photo
Sat 12/20/08 12:40 PM

Pics won't show?????????????????????????


Must be dirty.
drool drool drool drool drool tears


Could do that but don't want to get kicked off!!!

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 12/20/08 01:05 PM
When you get to that point it's part of the guys job to make her feel comfortable and not self concious.

oldsage's photo
Sat 12/20/08 01:13 PM
"guys job"????????????


I would call it a "guy's pleasure."

pitchfork pitchfork drool oops slaphead slaphead :thumbsup: winking

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 02:08 PM
I agree with invisible and sage on this one. I wouldn't consider taking off my clothes for someone if didn't already have that level of self confidence and intimacy with that individual. Sage, it's definitely part of the man's pleasure.pitchfork smitten

july7553's photo
Sat 12/20/08 02:46 PM
Any man who would make a woman feel self-conscious isn't worth taking your clothes off for - just my opinion

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