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Topic: Dating a person without anything in common
hockeyfan8 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 36	Sun 12/14/08 11:23 PM
I had a sweet women the other day ask me to have lunch with her so I did but found out we have little in common. We had a good time but I don't see a future for us but she said she does im wondering what's a nice way to tell her without hurting her feelings. My last relationship fizzled because we had little in common and it's happening again. Any advice thank you everyone it would be appreciated.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sun 12/14/08 11:28 PM
You both had a good time. Didn't you two have that in common?

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 12/14/08 11:31 PM
marry her

hockeyfan8 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 36	Sun 12/14/08 11:31 PM
You both had a good time. Didn't you two have that in common? Haha we did but we're totally different she doesn't like Hockey for starters but she is really nice.

hockeyfan8 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 36	Sun 12/14/08 11:33 PM
marry her LOL that would be like huge mistake nothing like getting divorced 2 weeks after your married.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sun 12/14/08 11:33 PM
Tell her the truth. Tell her goodbye.

hockeyfan8 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 36	Sun 12/14/08 11:36 PM
Tell her the truth. Tell her goodbye. I would love to but she is a clinging type that doesn't take no thanks easily.

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Sun 12/14/08 11:36 PM
tell her the truth as nicely and politely as you can without being misleading.

hockeyfan8 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 36	Sun 12/14/08 11:40 PM
tell her the truth as nicely and politely as you can without being misleading. I can try it but if she doesn't understand than it will just get worse but I guess there is only one way to find out.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sun 12/14/08 11:46 PM
????? So she doesnt like hockey???? Is that the deal breaker???? Wouldnt you rather be with someone you got along with than someone who just likes a sport????

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sun 12/14/08 11:47 PM
Take a friend with you. Beware the Klingons.

hockeyfan8 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 36	Sun 12/14/08 11:51 PM
????? So she doesnt like hockey???? Is that the deal breaker???? Wouldnt you rather be with someone you got along with than someone who just likes a sport???? Haha no I said for starters we don't like the same music she likes clubs I don't not just a sport LOL.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sun 12/14/08 11:54 PM
????? So she doesnt like hockey???? Is that the deal breaker???? Wouldnt you rather be with someone you got along with than someone who just likes a sport???? Bingo.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sun 12/14/08 11:55 PM
get a pickle it will help ya

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/15/08 12:21 AM
I dont know.......I like some differences. What I think is most important is that you share the same values and morals......and get along IMO!! Anyways it sounds like you have made up your mind. NEXT!!!

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 12/15/08 12:35 AM
she is very shy like Gypsy until you get to know her

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/15/08 12:39 AM
she is very shy like Gypsy until you get to know her I prefer to call myself....... ALOOF!!!

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 12/15/08 12:58 AM
Vacation in Mayheeco!! Ay Caramba!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/15/08 01:15 AM


plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 12/15/08 03:10 AM
Seriously be honest with her, she will appreciate it. Besides a conversation may reveal that you 2 of more in common than you think.