your at the point in your relationship
that you want to share the sexual intimacey.....
but your partner doesnt like condoms....




~~~~Discuss~~~~

That would probably end up being me...either way I don't care, can wear them just don't like them...like some kind of deformed latex slobbery glove *shudders*.

what if its only a 2nd or 3rd date...how much are you willing to risk???

Makes no difference to me. My tubes are snipped,tied and burnt, ain't anything going to get through. So as long as we both have a STD test done, then I would much rather go at it with out the condom. I hate waiting for it to go, ruins the mood for me.

Makes no difference to me. My tubes are snipped,tied and burnt, ain't anything going to get through. So as long as we both have a STD test done, then I would much rather go at it with out the condom. I hate waiting for it to go, ruins the mood for me.

2nd date, 2nd base, 3rd date, 3rd base...beyond that we go as far as we are comfortable to go, what do you take me as wolf? Some kind of sex crazed loony?

And to be honest I would wear one for protection for both of us until we were both comfortable with the idea, if we happen to be comfy with that idea on the 4th date so be it...but it would be mutual and I would expect her to be honest and upfront if there are any risks involved.

hey I know some guys take 2 women home.....
they must because the one they wake up with , isnt who they layed down next to!!!!

I'll be married and not have to worry about condems or condemnation.

yo yo yo i would be suspicious as hell

good!!!

Im happy for you

Just make sure you get the right size... I was with a B/F who had a rather large...uh...girth... He put the dang thing on & it rolled right back up & shot across the room! Ping!

I've been spayed...LOL
Nothing getting past that iron door..haha!

But on a more serious note, if my S.O. wanted to be with me badly enough, he'd have to agree to an STD test along with me. Especially on a 2nd or 3rd date...I have the home~kits...ROFLAO!!

I didn't mean it! It was an accident!

I made the mistake of having a copper IUD placed for my partner, because he said he refused to have sex with condoms.

That was after we had committed to a monogamous relationship and agreed to spend the rest of our lives together.
Along the way, I learned that he was on every dating site out there; and he admitted to me he had never been faithful to any woman he had ever committed to, loved, or been with. It is only due to God's grace that I didn't catch any stds, because I don't know what he was doing when he wasn't in my presence.

My ex husband of 13 years cheated on me during the only time we did not use condoms, when we were trying to conceive our child. Again, it was only through God's grace that I didn't catch anything.

It makes it almost impossible to trust another partner for fluid bonding again.

not that I want everyone to know my business, but....
my child producing and rearing days are ...

over,

on another note,

3rd or 4th date......

Hmmmmmmm.......

I guess age and (hopefully wisdom) have made me somewhat old fashioned

I dont think its "meaningful" that early in a dating relationship.

hey,

but thats just me......

I'll pass