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So I met this guy from another site. Had two lunches with him. He has completely gone off the deep end for me. Texting about 80 times a day starting at 330 am. This morning when I couldn't take it anymore, I called him and said to stop. No more contact, I was DONE. He tells me don't worry, you won't be hearing from me anymore. Just be watching in the papers.....Click.
I have had eight more texts from him since then. Do I call the cops and report him as suicidal or leave it alone? |
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Hey that's central PA for ya,
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The cops won't do anything unless he's threatened you in some manner... I'd just keep ignoring him, turn your phone off for awhile so if he calls it'll just go to voicemail. Good luck, that really sucks you're in this position.
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Edited by
EllenYUL
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Thu 12/11/08 04:54 PM
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unless he's threatened suicide, I wouldn't state he was suicidal (maybe i read your post wrong). I would report it to the police though, for sure. Just in case he does something else....you dont want to be saying 'i wish i had...'
scary.. good luck and be safe I agree the cops wont do anything but they will keep a record of your 'complaint' |
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Key words here are you met him on another site.
But he sounds like a freakazoid, right now I would probably turn my phone off or go get a new number. He doesn't know where you live does he? 
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Last time I was avoiding someone, I turned my phone off so it went right to voicemail... but my message was "Hi, this is Jill, I'm avoiding someone's call right now so leave me a message ... and if I don't call you back, assume it's you"
 He finally stopped calling me. 
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Jill - thats hilarious. I'm gonna use that one day!!!
:) |
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The cops won't do anything unless he's threatened you in some manner... I'd just keep ignoring him, turn your phone off for awhile so if he calls it'll just go to voicemail. Good luck, that really sucks you're in this position. Over three texts / calls within twenty four hours is the magic number to be legally considered harassment... |
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The cops won't do anything unless he's threatened you in some manner... I'd just keep ignoring him, turn your phone off for awhile so if he calls it'll just go to voicemail. Good luck, that really sucks you're in this position. Over three texts / calls within twenty four hours is the magic number to be legally considered harassment...  at least not when I tried to file a complaint before...
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Jill - thats hilarious. I'm gonna use that one day!!! :) glad I can help 
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Last time I was avoiding someone, I turned my phone off so it went right to voicemail... but my message was "Hi, this is Jill, I'm avoiding someone's call right now so leave me a message ... and if I don't call you back, assume it's you" He finally stopped calling me.
That is a good idea. Think I will do that right now. I also want to call my carrier and see if I can block his number. |
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a little frightening - did you meet him from here....lol - Just ignore him - I'd make a preliminary report though
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The cops won't do anything unless he's threatened you in some manner... I'd just keep ignoring him, turn your phone off for awhile so if he calls it'll just go to voicemail. Good luck, that really sucks you're in this position. Over three texts / calls within twenty four hours is the magic number to be legally considered harassment... at least not when I tried to file a complaint before...
well in texas u can still shoot a complete stranger on site so long as you post the sign.... |
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So I met this guy from another site. Had two lunches with him. He has completely gone off the deep end for me. Texting about 80 times a day starting at 330 am. This morning when I couldn't take it anymore, I called him and said to stop. No more contact, I was DONE. He tells me don't worry, you won't be hearing from me anymore. Just be watching in the papers.....Click. I have had eight more texts from him since then. Do I call the cops and report him as suicidal or leave it alone? |
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So I met this guy from another site. Had two lunches with him. He has completely gone off the deep end for me. Texting about 80 times a day starting at 330 am. This morning when I couldn't take it anymore, I called him and said to stop. No more contact, I was DONE. He tells me don't worry, you won't be hearing from me anymore. Just be watching in the papers.....Click. I have had eight more texts from him since then. Do I call the cops and report him as suicidal or leave it alone? 
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It was on a different site. At our first meeting he kept insisting we had met before. I said I don't think so. It went well. I agreed to another lunch. BIG MISTAKE.. He figured out how we met. We were together in previous lives. Downward spiral from there.
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every time I didn't call the cops for stuff like this I regreted it at some point...better to be safe than sorry...
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It was on a different site. At our first meeting he kept insisting we had met before. I said I don't think so. It went well. I agreed to another lunch. BIG MISTAKE.. He figured out how we met. We were together in previous lives. Downward spiral from there. I think I was Shakespeare - wanna go for lunch? |
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Last time I was avoiding someone, I turned my phone off so it went right to voicemail... but my message was "Hi, this is Jill, I'm avoiding someone's call right now so leave me a message ... and if I don't call you back, assume it's you" He finally stopped calling me.
That is a good idea. Think I will do that right now. I also want to call my carrier and see if I can block his number. at least wait to block him until he hears your message
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It was on a different site. At our first meeting he kept insisting we had met before. I said I don't think so. It went well. I agreed to another lunch. BIG MISTAKE.. He figured out how we met. We were together in previous lives. Downward spiral from there.    whoa easy there cowboy
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