Topic: PHONE CHAT PROBLEM
memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:13 PM
Edited by memphisboss on Wed 12/10/08 10:14 PM
WHATS WRONG WHEN YOU JUST DONT LIKE TALKING ON THE PHONE FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR GIRL LOVES TO. HOW DO YOU TELL A WOMAN THAT WITHOUT MAKING HER FEEL LIKE YOU DONT CARE ABOUT HER. IN ADDITION' ITS A LD RELATIONSHIP AND YOU DONT SEE HER MUCH.

rlynne's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:19 PM
make the calls more frequent just shorter, add texts so she knows your thinking of her, not much just a "hey thinking of you" kinda thing since its long distance, but you may have to deal with at least one or two long convos in a week I dunno

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:24 PM
YEAH SHE TEXTS ME EVERYDAY. ALL DAY SOMETIMES. I JUST DONT LIKE SITTING ON THE PHONE SPILLING MY GUTS FOR SOME ODD REASON. LOL. ITS BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE I WAS A KID. I NEVER HAVE LIKED TALKING ON THE PHONE AT ALL.I THINK SHE JUST HAS A TRUST ISSUE. BUT SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T. IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL THO.

Winx's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:43 PM

YEAH SHE TEXTS ME EVERYDAY. ALL DAY SOMETIMES. I JUST DONT LIKE SITTING ON THE PHONE SPILLING MY GUTS FOR SOME ODD REASON. LOL. ITS BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE I WAS A KID. I NEVER HAVE LIKED TALKING ON THE PHONE AT ALL.I THINK SHE JUST HAS A TRUST ISSUE. BUT SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T. IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL THO.



Does she know that you're on this site?

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:45 PM


YEAH SHE TEXTS ME EVERYDAY. ALL DAY SOMETIMES. I JUST DONT LIKE SITTING ON THE PHONE SPILLING MY GUTS FOR SOME ODD REASON. LOL. ITS BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE I WAS A KID. I NEVER HAVE LIKED TALKING ON THE PHONE AT ALL.I THINK SHE JUST HAS A TRUST ISSUE. BUT SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T. IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL THO.



Does she know that you're on this site?

YEAH SHE DOES!!!! I MET HER HERE

no photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:46 PM
Do you always use caps????

Winx's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:47 PM



YEAH SHE TEXTS ME EVERYDAY. ALL DAY SOMETIMES. I JUST DONT LIKE SITTING ON THE PHONE SPILLING MY GUTS FOR SOME ODD REASON. LOL. ITS BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE I WAS A KID. I NEVER HAVE LIKED TALKING ON THE PHONE AT ALL.I THINK SHE JUST HAS A TRUST ISSUE. BUT SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T. IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL THO.



Does she know that you're on this site?

YEAH SHE DOES!!!! I MET HER HERE


Then I'm sure that she notices that you haven't mentioned her on your profile.

It's cool that you met here on here.happy

no photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:50 PM
good catch winx

well, a LD relationship takes time and work...
it sounds like u'd rather spend your time
doing something else??

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:51 PM

Do you always use caps????

sorry. why does that bother people? i never knew why. im new to this www type stuff

Winx's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:52 PM


Do you always use caps????

sorry. why does that bother people? i never knew why. im new to this www type stuff


On the internet, it means that you're hollering. Plus, it's hard on the eyes.

Winx's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:52 PM

good catch winx

well, a LD relationship takes time and work...
it sounds like u'd rather spend your time
doing something else??


Why, thank you, HockeyChick.:smile:

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:53 PM

good catch winx

well, a LD relationship takes time and work...
it sounds like u'd rather spend your time
doing something else??

well its not just a serious serious relationship. idunno

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:55 PM
TRY TEXTING?

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 10:58 PM
does that to the point of no return!!! how do you set your computer to capitalize the letters automatically? Or do you have to shift the hell out of the beginning of each sentence?

Winx's photo
Wed 12/10/08 11:11 PM

does that to the point of no return!!! how do you set your computer to capitalize the letters automatically? Or do you have to shift the hell out of the beginning of each sentence?


Hold the shift key for the first letter of each sentence.

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 11:14 PM


does that to the point of no return!!! how do you set your computer to capitalize the letters automatically? Or do you have to shift the hell out of the beginning of each sentence?


Hold the shift key for the first letter of each sentence.

Thought so. That really sucks

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 12/10/08 11:19 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Wed 12/10/08 11:21 PM

WHATS WRONG WHEN YOU JUST DONT LIKE TALKING ON THE PHONE FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR GIRL LOVES TO. HOW DO YOU TELL A WOMAN THAT WITHOUT MAKING HER FEEL LIKE YOU DONT CARE ABOUT HER. IN ADDITION' ITS A LD RELATIONSHIP AND YOU DONT SEE HER MUCH.


I'm in a same boat. Sorry ladies! I just can't talk for hours on the phone. Once I tell what happened, next day, there isn't much i can add unless something extra ordinary happens. I got crucified for this with so many girls, because somehow they think I don't love them or something...

I'm not a phone-guy, that's all and not because I don't "love", but simply because I don't know what to talk about if there is really not much happening. And I don't like it, when they just wait and wait for me to say something and I'm like being tortured, because I am trying to think of what to talk about and I have to switch to a stupid subject. In person it's different, then we can always talk about something, but just sit over the damn phone for hours, I can't do that.

memphisboss's photo
Wed 12/10/08 11:49 PM


WHATS WRONG WHEN YOU JUST DONT LIKE TALKING ON THE PHONE FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR GIRL LOVES TO. HOW DO YOU TELL A WOMAN THAT WITHOUT MAKING HER FEEL LIKE YOU DONT CARE ABOUT HER. IN ADDITION' ITS A LD RELATIONSHIP AND YOU DONT SEE HER MUCH.


I'm in a same boat. Sorry ladies! I just can't talk for hours on the phone. Once I tell what happened, next day, there isn't much i can add unless something extra ordinary happens. I got crucified for this with so many girls, because somehow they think I don't love them or something...

I'm not a phone-guy, that's all and not because I don't "love", but simply because I don't know what to talk about if there is really not much happening. And I don't like it, when they just wait and wait for me to say something and I'm like being tortured, because I am trying to think of what to talk about and I have to switch to a stupid subject. In person it's different, then we can always talk about something, but just sit over the damn phone for hours, I can't do that.

Good to know someone else feels exactly like i do!! Torture exactly. lol

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Thu 12/11/08 12:36 AM
So is it torture talking to them????

You know the english language is supposed to be for communication.


Should we just do hand signals???noway laugh noway