Topic: I hope this doesnt offend anyone that has emailed me... BUT. | |
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Alright... this has happened quite a few times... I get emails that say... "I would like to chat sometime... which one are you "
I do have a pic of just myself... in the blue at a bowling alley... but BEFORE you ask to chat wouldnt you inquire which one I am???? If something ever developed... I would not be comfortable hanging with my friends knowing you did not care if it was me or them you dated!!!! |
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that's not nice cornfusing the poor chap
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Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with.
I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion. |
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! |
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and you really dont want to be in a relationsh*t!!!
Tell me Im wrong???? Delve deep into your soul and tell me Im wrong??? |
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Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with. I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion. I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat. |
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Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with. I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion. I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat. have you ever met a man before? |
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I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat. Maybe they don't care what you look like and they just want you for your witty banter and charming personality. |
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I call bs all around here!!!!
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts. \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does. |
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Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with. I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion. I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat. have you ever met a man before? Off the computer... I am assuming is your question... yes... not from mingle... from... POF & another site... I have had some nice dates & have some friends from it but no relationships yet. |
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts. \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does. Ignore her. She's like this to everyone. She spends most of her time here talking to herself in her own little thread. Watch and I'll show you how to ignore her. |
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Im not singling you out........but you singled yourself out so to speak.
Try a single pic of yourself...... then ask questions later....... |
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Men want to talk to pretty women. Both the women in your picture are pretty. Most men wouldn't care which one they were chatting with. I'm curious why you don't have more pictures of just you so there would be no confusion. I probably should but I figure that I am in almost all of the pics myself & in the one of just myself & change them periodically... and think that being attracted to both of us but not caring which one they are talking to is two completely different subjects... lol... maybe it is just me... but it does mean alot when I get an email & they dont care which one I am & just want to chat. have you ever met a man before? Off the computer... I am assuming is your question... yes... not from mingle... from... POF & another site... I have had some nice dates & have some friends from it but no relationships yet. guys love their visuals - you are giving them visual overload two women in one picture = bisexual |
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts. \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does. so takign the time to 'single you out'.. .. that means having that main photo of you on your profile is like a test.. who does he like better.. can he pick me before he picks her? |
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts. \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does. Ignore her. She's like this to everyone. She spends most of her time here talking to herself in her own little thread. Watch and I'll show you how to ignore her. LOL.... this is a forum... we chat & ask for advice... not to be cussed at... I do change my pics periodically but they ALWAYS have my friends in them from when we go out... I dont know...??? |
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts. \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does. so takign the time to 'single you out'.. .. that means having that main photo of you on your profile is like a test.. who does he like better.. can he pick me before he picks her? |
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BTW... my friend in the pic... IS SINGLE... she is on mingle... and she is an awesome catch... FYI
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Edited by
SamaraNJ
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Tue 12/09/08 05:30 AM
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You know what I think is funny??? that you even ask this question???? Because.........here is my thoughts. \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I viewed your profile I didnt know who you were either so in my mind you A) wanna fukc them over or B) you wanna fukc them over!!! Then ask in the email... before wanting to chat... is all I am saying... or maybe it doesnt matter to you... but I am looking for someone who... is taking the time to single me out... why so hostel... with F word so early in the day... ??? It does matter to me that the dont ask first & I hope it doesnt offend them that it upsets me... but it does. so takign the time to 'single you out'.. .. that means having that main photo of you on your profile is like a test.. who does he like better.. can he pick me before he picks her? well if you were serious and didn't like the drama I bet that pic would come down and one of just you would be up... |
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That is a pic of me & my best friend... & the point was I think people should ask first... I just think "drama" is not in the equation of an email that I dont care for... LOL... I dont care for those types of emails... I love the pic of me & my best friend... sorry
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