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Conceived. All downhill from there.
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Sat 12/06/08 07:18 PM
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I really try not to think about my childhood.The truth is that my stepfather sexual abuse me and my mother was alcholic[lost her when she was 36yrs old]I know she loved me in her own way.But she didn't protect me,she didn't believe me when I told her.So I got married at 17,just to get away from home.I made a promise that I would never turn into my mother and I would always be there for my kids,They would have a better mom.My stepfather told me about 7 yrs ago that the past was the past,it didn't matter anymore but he was wrong.. *hug* 
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When I was a teenager.... I wanted to dress trashy. You know the bare midriff, and the hiphuggers,not to mention the shorts like wayyyyyyyyyyy up my azz! My mom used to tell me I was advertising and someday someone was gonna wanna sample my goods. Well one day, as im heading out of the door looking like a friggen ho, my mom decieded that if I was gonna show it, I should show it all. She stripped me naked, and threw me onto the front porch, and locked me out! Needless to say, when I was able to get back in, I dressed myself accordingly! I dont dress like a slut now... I dress sexy, but never sleazy! Thanks Mom!!!! LOL tough love.. She sounds tough, sounds like something my grandmother would have done.... Good thing it helped you.. Other people may have been posting how that damaged them forever.. Im a rocker... we dont break babe...we bounce! ok.. now how many offers are going to pop up asking to see or to help you bounce... |
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Sat 12/06/08 07:19 PM
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 never anything bad enough to make me become a serial killer
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I really try not to think about my childhood.The truth is that my stepfather sexual abuse me and my mother was alcholic[lost her when she was 36yrs old]I know she loved me in her own way.But she didn't protect me,she didn't believe me when I told her.So I got married at 17,just to get away from home.I made a promise that I would never turn into my mother and I would always be there for my kids,They would have a better mom.My stepfather told me about 7 yrs ago that the past was the past,it didn't matter anymore but he was wrong.. *hug*
the past does matter.. you need to learn from it.. because of the past I see people I have known and I know exactly how not to be... |
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Edited by
littleredhen
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Sat 12/06/08 07:38 PM
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When my boyfriend kicked me out & I had a young daughter my mother would not let her grandchild spend the night with her. I slept in the car, didn't expect otherwise but the old ***** would not help her little granddaughter. It was 20 degrees. My sister took her.
She did not come when my daughter graduated from college. My daughter was the 1st kid in our family to go. My mother apparently would rather have seen her having babies as a teenager like the rest of the girls. She's driven past me in the rain carrying a baby. When my grandmother died, my sister called me to tell me, & when I showed up at the funeral my mother yelled at my sister & didn't speak to her for 2 years.I sat at my grandmother's funeral 3 rows back & alone. She told me I was just like my father, who died when I was 5. Like that was the worst insult ever. I'm waiting for the old ***** to die, so I can go back home, but she probably will outlive me. I guess everyone here will think I am a horrible person now. Oh yeah she told me I was fat stubborn & lazy & no man would ever want me. I guess she was right about 1 thing, cause here I am. |
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When my boyfriend kicked me out & I had a young daughter my mother would not let her grandchild spend the night with her. I slept in the car, didn't expect otherwise but the old ***** would not help her little granddaughter. It was 20 degrees. My sister took her. She did not come when my daughter graduated from college. My daughter was the 1st kid in our family to go. My mother apparently would rather have seen her having babies as a teenager like the rest of the girls. She's driven past me in the rain carrying a baby. When my grandmother died, my sister called me to tell me, & when I showed up at the funeral my mother yelled at my sister & didn't speak to her for 2 years.I sat at my grandmother's funeral 3 rows back & alone. She told me I was just like my father, who died when I was 5. Like that was the worst insult ever. I'm waiting for the old ***** to die, so I can go back home, but she probably will outlive me. I guess everyone here will think I am a horrible person now. I don't think you're horrible at all.. but.. why wait for her to die to go back home? she has the family against you or something? I understand it being your mother instead of anyone else it may be harder to have the strength to ignore it and stand up to her... It has become easy for me to forget certain people and never speak to them again.. |
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When my boyfriend kicked me out & I had a young daughter my mother would not let her grandchild spend the night with her. I slept in the car, didn't expect otherwise but the old ***** would not help her little granddaughter. It was 20 degrees. My sister took her. She did not come when my daughter graduated from college. My daughter was the 1st kid in our family to go. My mother apparently would rather have seen her having babies as a teenager like the rest of the girls. She's driven past me in the rain carrying a baby. When my grandmother died, my sister called me to tell me, & when I showed up at the funeral my mother yelled at my sister & didn't speak to her for 2 years.I sat at my grandmother's funeral 3 rows back & alone. She told me I was just like my father, who died when I was 5. Like that was the worst insult ever. I'm waiting for the old ***** to die, so I can go back home, but she probably will outlive me. I guess everyone here will think I am a horrible person now. You are not a horrible person and neither is your mother. She sure as hell has done some horrible things it seems but we all have redeeming qualities. She raised your sister to be a loving, caring woman right? Most of us have redeeming qualities anyway. |
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When my boyfriend kicked me out & I had a young daughter my mother would not let her grandchild spend the night with her. I slept in the car, didn't expect otherwise but the old ***** would not help her little granddaughter. It was 20 degrees. My sister took her. She did not come when my daughter graduated from college. My daughter was the 1st kid in our family to go. My mother apparently would rather have seen her having babies as a teenager like the rest of the girls. She's driven past me in the rain carrying a baby. When my grandmother died, my sister called me to tell me, & when I showed up at the funeral my mother yelled at my sister & didn't speak to her for 2 years.I sat at my grandmother's funeral 3 rows back & alone. She told me I was just like my father, who died when I was 5. Like that was the worst insult ever. I'm waiting for the old ***** to die, so I can go back home, but she probably will outlive me. I guess everyone here will think I am a horrible person now. I don't think you're horrible at all.. but.. why wait for her to die to go back home? she has the family against you or something? I understand it being your mother instead of anyone else it may be harder to have the strength to ignore it and stand up to her... It has become easy for me to forget certain people and never speak to them again.. She has this childish attitude that you can't be her friend unless you hate everyone she hates. My sisters won't risk it. My daughter gets mad at me because she dosn't understand & of course since she's there she belives them. I won't tell her all the stories about her grandmother, but at 26 she's starting to see for herself. |
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took away my cds and sent me to outpatient rehab Outpatient rehab meant that he cared. |
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When my boyfriend kicked me out & I had a young daughter my mother would not let her grandchild spend the night with her. I slept in the car, didn't expect otherwise but the old ***** would not help her little granddaughter. It was 20 degrees. My sister took her. She did not come when my daughter graduated from college. My daughter was the 1st kid in our family to go. My mother apparently would rather have seen her having babies as a teenager like the rest of the girls. She's driven past me in the rain carrying a baby. When my grandmother died, my sister called me to tell me, & when I showed up at the funeral my mother yelled at my sister & didn't speak to her for 2 years.I sat at my grandmother's funeral 3 rows back & alone. She told me I was just like my father, who died when I was 5. Like that was the worst insult ever. I'm waiting for the old ***** to die, so I can go back home, but she probably will outlive me. I guess everyone here will think I am a horrible person now. You are not a horrible person and neither is your mother. She sure as hell has done some horrible things it seems but we all have redeeming qualities. She raised your sister to be a loving, caring woman right? Most of us have redeeming qualities anyway. No, my sister loved the proof that I was a loser & could not take care of my daughter. She loves throwing that in my face. |
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I don't think you're horrible at all.. but.. why wait for her to die to go back home? she has the family against you or something? I understand it being your mother instead of anyone else it may be harder to have the strength to ignore it and stand up to her... It has become easy for me to forget certain people and never speak to them again.. She has this childish attitude that you can't be her friend unless you hate everyone she hates. My sisters won't risk it. My daughter gets mad at me because she dosn't understand & of course since she's there she belives them. I won't tell her all the stories about her grandmother, but at 26 she's starting to see for herself. yeah.. I know people are going to hate me for this because of freedom and what the US stands for.. but.. I would not think twice about it if one day the government decided that you need to take parenting classes and get a permit or license to have children... |
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 What was the most awful thing your parent or parents did to you?
they locked me up for the first forty years of my life |
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Edited by
littleredhen
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Sat 12/06/08 07:50 PM
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When my boyfriend kicked me out & I had a young daughter my mother would not let her grandchild spend the night with her. I slept in the car, didn't expect otherwise but the old ***** would not help her little granddaughter. It was 20 degrees. My sister took her. She did not come when my daughter graduated from college. My daughter was the 1st kid in our family to go. My mother apparently would rather have seen her having babies as a teenager like the rest of the girls. She's driven past me in the rain carrying a baby. When my grandmother died, my sister called me to tell me, & when I showed up at the funeral my mother yelled at my sister & didn't speak to her for 2 years.I sat at my grandmother's funeral 3 rows back & alone. She told me I was just like my father, who died when I was 5. Like that was the worst insult ever. I'm waiting for the old ***** to die, so I can go back home, but she probably will outlive me. I guess everyone here will think I am a horrible person now. You are not a horrible person and neither is your mother. She sure as hell has done some horrible things it seems but we all have redeeming qualities. She raised your sister to be a loving, caring woman right? Most of us have redeeming qualities anyway. My mother is extremly beautiful. Even when I last saw, her 8 years ago when she was 72, she was still beautiful. She has the ageless beauty of Lena Horn, Joan Collins & Liz Taylor. No one cares how awful a woman is when she looks like that. |
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Dad was great: died when I was five. Mom raised us (especially me as I was the baby), worked hard, did all she could. I've no complaints. She's 89 now, smart as a whip, and still proven my most loyal and true friend.
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Edited by
connor82
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Sat 12/06/08 07:52 PM
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Sat 12/06/08 08:17 PM
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because of my childhood i decided to study psychology and try to help other children who were victims and witnesses to domestic abuse.
the question wasn't what my childhood was like but what was the *worst* thing my parents did to me. this is really hard to imagine after all the crap that happened that i blocked out my father was yelling at my mother to demand an apology from me because i stood up to him one time about abusing my mother. my mother obeyed, called me downstairs and asked that i apologise to my father for accusing him of being abusive. I told her, in front of him: "i would have to feel intrinsically sorry to apologise to that man". He blew up with rage at that, accused me of thinking i'm smarter than him (he always hated the fact that i excelled at school) and beat the living hell out of me and would not stop till i broke a tear. i refused to cry, i just stared up at him with each blow with intense hatred in my eyes, which only made him madder. my mum attempted to get him to stop after a while but but he just raised a hand at her, and she retreated. when he stopped he said he only stopped because he got tired. after all this i stood up and looked him square in the eye and said "are you done now?" acting all impatient as if i had something i was doing upstairs i had to get back to. he beat me again at that. i went to school the next day to take important end of term exams covered in bruises. 
good times 
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My mother is extremly beautiful. Even when I last saw, her 8 years ago when she was 72, she was still beautiful. She has the ageless beauty of Lena Horn, Joan Collins & Liz Taylor. No one cares how awful a woman is when she looks like that.
You might be surprised by the number of people who actually do care how awful she is and feel just like you say your sister does, loving the proof that she's twisted and ugly on the inside. Has your sister actually thrown that you were down on your luck in your face? |
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My mother is extremly beautiful. Even when I last saw, her 8 years ago when she was 72, she was still beautiful. She has the ageless beauty of Lena Horn, Joan Collins & Liz Taylor. No one cares how awful a woman is when she looks like that.
You might be surprised by the number of people who actually do care how awful she is and feel just like you say your sister does, loving the proof that she's twisted and ugly on the inside. Has your sister actually thrown that you were down on your luck in your face? She thinks I should have put up with my boyfriend's abuse & affair. My family thinks I could do no better & I need a man. I am doing much better now that I am far away from them & him. |
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Edited by
littleredhen
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Sat 12/06/08 08:27 PM
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Oh, you just got me started... Well, for starters, lets go... My dad always watched over my little sis, and I'm NOT saying this outta jealousy, you can ask her, she will tell you what I am saying is true. On my 15th birthday I asked my dad for $40 for a system my friend was going to sell to me, and he said no, a couple hours later he took off. Now before I go any further, you have to know that I was gone for a year, (that is a WHOLE other story) and my lil sis left my prized bike outside to rust., Ok, now to the rest of the story, 5 hours later my dad drove up with a kick arse bike in the back of his truck! YAY! A new bike, and god knows I needed it. I ran outside smiling, jumping up and down, my lil sis was behind me complaining that she wanted one, ( you know, since she ruined my last one, she didnt have a bike to ride anymore) I ran to the back of the truck, and when dad ran out I screamed, "Thank you, thank you, just what I wanted!" and he goes to the back to lift the bike up and onto the ground, rolls it to my lil sis and says, "It's not for you, it's for her." Then, as if he felt bad, he gave me a $10 bill and told me to walk to the store and pick him up a 12 pack of pepsi. Gee Jessica, too bad your Dad didn't hook up with my Mom. Sounds like they deserved each other. |
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