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Topic: Women always seem to....
trm3177's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:07 PM
Have their guard up.

I have been on this site for a while and on others also and I seem to be having trouble meeting someone. It seems that most of the time when I do connect with someone online a couple of emails get exchanged and then nothing.

So my question is why does it seem the women have their guard up?

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:11 PM

Have their guard up.

I have been on this site for a while and on others also and I seem to be having trouble meeting someone. It seems that most of the time when I do connect with someone online a couple of emails get exchanged and then nothing.

So my question is why does it seem the women have their guard up?



cause of past hurt and mine will not come down easily.

awolf1010's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:12 PM
what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:13 PM
Men do too.

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:13 PM

what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!


sarcasm at it's finest

awolf1010's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:15 PM


what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!


sarcasm at it's finest
ok there was you!!!!:tongue: flowerforyou
but I said I was sorry!!!!!

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:16 PM
Just being caucious, I guess!

But you are a nice looking guy & I'm sure you'll have no problem meeting someone soon-
Whatcha doin' NEXT weekend??!huh :wink:

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:17 PM



what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!


sarcasm at it's finest
ok there was you!!!!:tongue: flowerforyou
but I said I was sorry!!!!!


but all I wanted was a kiss

robert1652's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:19 PM
The loss will seem to be theirs and not yours

Plenty of fish in the sea (Pun not intended)

This site is for my friends only I don't seem to have any problems there.

The ones who talk about the hurt etc, only are here to pass that hurt to someone else.

A few have anger management issues,but all in all very colourful site if you are asking me

CleanBathroom's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:19 PM
Can't we just talk about the weather? This topic makes me uncomfortable. frown

no photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:20 PM
lol

Mystique42's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:21 PM
Whether this and whether that?

trm3177's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:22 PM
Edited by trm3177 on Fri 12/05/08 06:24 PM

awolf1010's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:24 PM




what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!


sarcasm at it's finest
ok there was you!!!!:tongue: flowerforyou
but I said I was sorry!!!!!


but all I wanted was a kiss
blushing blushing smooched smooched smooched :wink:

trm3177's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:25 PM

what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!


usually they ask me a question and i usually ask them a question the basic get to know you stuff, but then the emails just stop.

I guess I have done this with women who I was not sure I would be into them... but I have had women contact me who's emails just stop.

hellkitten54's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:28 PM
They could be lazy.


I don't think they have their guard up, but maybe just lose interest. It shouldn't sway you to stop mailing though.

You should come to the forum more and post. It's a great way to get to know people. :smile:

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:28 PM





what are you saying to them?????

I havent seen any that act as you speak!!!


sarcasm at it's finest
ok there was you!!!!:tongue: flowerforyou
but I said I was sorry!!!!!


but all I wanted was a kiss
blushing blushing smooched smooched smooched :wink:


thank you

trm3177's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:31 PM

They could be lazy.


I don't think they have their guard up, but maybe just lose interest. It shouldn't sway you to stop mailing though.

You should come to the forum more and post. It's a great way to get to know people. :smile:


I hear what you are saying... but I just hate wasting time... I hate emailing and nothing happening...

Take a chance maybee you will like me mabee you wont either way ya find out.

no photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:34 PM
I think a lot of women keep their guard up because they don't want to feel vulnerable. they think that if they act tough they won't get hurt

hellkitten54's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:36 PM


They could be lazy.


I don't think they have their guard up, but maybe just lose interest. It shouldn't sway you to stop mailing though.

You should come to the forum more and post. It's a great way to get to know people. :smile:


I hear what you are saying... but I just hate wasting time... I hate emailing and nothing happening...

Take a chance maybee you will like me mabee you wont either way ya find out.


Believe me, I know all to well how you feel about the wasting time part. But finding the right person does take time, so you just have to be patient and something will come along when you least expect it. : )

But the ones that don't respond back at some point, they are doing you a favor and NOT wasting anymore of your time at least!

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