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Would you make the bold step to call someone your GF/BF if you wouldn't or couldn't tell your family and friends about them?
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Lily, baby,.... I tell everyone and anyone you are my B*tch!!!
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Lily, baby,.... I tell everyone and anyone you are my B*tch!!! and I lick your boots to prove it too... |
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oh damn!!!
(((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing... |
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Lily, baby,.... I tell everyone and anyone you are my B*tch!!! Nice... |
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my mom likes papersmile. she thinks she's sweet
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There is no way I would hide that from anyone. But of course, I have no family, and my friends have no issues with whatever it is I'm doing.
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oh damn!!! (((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing... What if you kept them a secret all together? This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend... |
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Would you make the bold step to call someone your GF/BF if you wouldn't or couldn't tell your family and friends about them? Er to answer your question.... Nope. If I couldn't or wouldn't tell my friends and family about him there must be a red flag of some kind.I can't and wont waste my time with a guy if the people most important to me don't know about him. That is me though. |
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I wanna be someones *****
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i wouldnt bother telling my old man, too much of a wierdo. my friends if they asked then yes
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There is no way I would hide that from anyone. But of course, I have no family, and my friends have no issues with whatever it is I'm doing. Personally Lex, I support you in any endevors you partake. ^^^^^^^^ That's the Lily stamp of approval. |
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oh damn!!! (((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing... What if you kept them a secret all together? This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend... Ahhh there's something about him that makes it so she can't tell them... Well, in that case I guess I would call him my bf but in all honesty I wouldn't hide anyone, if I had to hide them I shouldn't be dating them and if my family wouldn't accept someone I liked then shame on them... |
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There is no way I would hide that from anyone. But of course, I have no family, and my friends have no issues with whatever it is I'm doing. Personally Lex, I support you in any endevors you partake. ^^^^^^^^ That's the Lily stamp of approval. Works for me! Thank you! |
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No, but only because i dont have to. If i was a muslim girl, say, and my dad would kill me to bring 'honour' back to his family, then i would most certainly...
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oh damn!!! (((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing... What if you kept them a secret all together? This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend... Ahhh there's something about him that makes it so she can't tell them... Well, in that case I guess I would call him my bf but in all honesty I wouldn't hide anyone, if I had to hide them I shouldn't be dating them and if my family wouldn't accept someone I liked then shame on them... That's how I look at it, I'm not ashamed of anyone I would bring home to mom...so to speak. He took her to his family Thanksgiving, but she won't even tell her family that he exsists. |
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If i was a muslim girl, You're half way there.... oh you're Muslim too? |
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Whatever the reason for keeping someone secret from friends and family immediately excludes them from the title of girlfriend or boyfriend.
If the girl you work with wont tell her family then she's doing it for a reason, usually fear of how they will judge him. If she is afraid of their reaction then she must have doubts herself. The answer is no. |
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oh damn!!! (((Lily))) no I wouldn't call him a bf, I'd just say someone I'm seeing... What if you kept them a secret all together? This girl I work with won't tell her family about her relationship but calls him her boyfriend... Ahhh there's something about him that makes it so she can't tell them... Well, in that case I guess I would call him my bf but in all honesty I wouldn't hide anyone, if I had to hide them I shouldn't be dating them and if my family wouldn't accept someone I liked then shame on them... That's how I look at it, I'm not ashamed of anyone I would bring home to mom...so to speak. He took her to his family Thanksgiving, but she won't even tell her family that he exsists. If it's b/c of race or religion I thing it's wrong to hide someone or the family to not accept them and if you want to go by your families wishes then you shouldn't mess there anyway... Now, if he were a drug dealer, con, etc. I can see not introducing him but well why date a guy like that... does she give you the reason? |
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If i was a muslim girl, You're half way there.... oh you're Muslim too? If i was Muslim i wouldnt be allowed to get this sex change finished |
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