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Ohh goody!
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Ok, sorry for the confusion...but I am a girl and its my girlfriend that is sleeping with this married man.
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We have been officially together for a week. She didnt want a relationship when we first met a year ago..but I did
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So for the past 11 months and 3 weeks she was sleeping with you but not dating you?
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Yes, basically that is how it has been...
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Well..... um. I have to say it. I cannot stop myself....
"You teach people how to treat you". |
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She cares for you but she still likes men and a married guy is a safe hethro relationship..She wants the pleasure of both worlds...If she ever hooks up with a single guy you will be the other woman for her.
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what do you mean by I teach people how to treat me?
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I have been very patient and not pushed her. I never gave up tho cuz I know that I am what she wants, she is too scared to open her heart tho. So her safe bet is to sleep with someone married so there can be no commitment
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what do you mean by I teach people how to treat me? By what you tolerate and how you respond. People treat you the way they do because you encourage it, you tolerate it, you allow it, or you expect it. People get what they deserve, most times. If you tolerated being a booty call for a year, then are shocked she has one other than you, well? Why are you surprised? Come on. |
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I am with this girl i have wanted for about a year now. We just officially got together a week ago. She says she is in love with me yet thinks its ok to go sleep with this guy every so often, so she ends it between us right before so i cant say shes cheating on me Oh you got a Winner..............and they say love is overrated......... 
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I have been very patient and not pushed her. I never gave up tho cuz I know that I am what she wants, she is too scared to open her heart tho. So her safe bet is to sleep with someone married so there can be no commitment  Im the same way
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Edited by
Krimsa
on
Wed 12/03/08 01:42 PM
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I am with this girl i have wanted for about a year now. We just officially got together a week ago. She says she is in love with me yet thinks its ok to go sleep with this guy every so often, so she ends it between us right before so i cant say shes cheating on me What? So are you you together or not? Is she just going back and forth? You are behaving like a doormat. Its not even her fault because you are allowing it to happen. She doesnt sound commitment phobic. She sounds like a woman who is not interested in being with you at tall. 
Oh wait, its a woman? Uhh same thing. She needs to decide if shes a lesbian or not. I suggest some distance between the two of you for a spell because she needs to make a decision and then come to terms with the consequences of her actions. . |
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