HATE. " To feel hostility or animosity towards; to dislike intensely"
To hate someone there is a reason why so. YOU are most likely to have made your own reason to hate another. By telling secrets or trusting one more than another is a weakness.Everyone has a unique mind and way of thinking/choice making. Its like giving a complete stranger ammo for a gun and leaving the rest in their hands. Quietness is key. Trust is never built. it doesn't exsist. it is simply a trick of the mind to have trust in someone. A relationship needs not trust if fear is not present. How many times in a relationship do trust issues come up unless theres a reason for it. Now by someone breaking the so called trust is simply the birth of hate in its earliest form. I trust none and expect not to be trusted back.I simply live my life without bringing harm to anyone else.Fear is also a root for hate. Lets say you are scared of spiders, one falls next to you what do you say? Eeww i hate spiders.Fear=Hate. I give none reason to hate me. The only way one could hate me is out of jealousy or fear. But why be jealous?Why fear me? If i excel at one thing that simply means you excel at something i do not.I do not try to intimidate i have no reason to. Everyone is equal. no one person is better than another in the end. Hate only exsists if you let it and by wishing bad or doing bad to another. By doing so you have to be willing to accept what revolves back onto you and by doing this willingly one can not truely love oneself.

i only hate serial killers, rapists, child molesters, and dictators...i hope they kiss my ass and eat my flame.



welcome to mingle!

now theres a man at peace with himself and his surroundings. To obtain such peace is to not put yourself in a predicliment where jealousy and fear exist. A trait not shared by a great deal of people. Finding such peace is a grat accomplishment. Congratulations.

true, if he needs me, i've got his back.

Oh oh oh are you ever soooooooo wrong....

I agree with the hate part....but the trust part....I can't even tell you how many times I have posted on this subject...


Here is what I think


You trust always until that person gives you a reason to not trust. Go into any kind of relationship with the attitude of not trusting and it is doomed from the get go.

To exclaim trust doesn't exsist you might as well crawl under a rock and die.....because you would be doing the same as not living.

Now you may wonder ohhhh and you feral know this how. Well a few reasons...I am the matchmaker and as such I see more then most people on this site. I can't tell you how many many people have taken that wall of trust down brick by brick and now are happy. I have even had cases where the walls were so strong and when they were able to take it down you guessed it...marriage, happiness......So I speak from a place of dealing with it on a daily basis.


To think that people will never have fear in a relationship is just plain stupid. But I would also say the fear and the trust issues come from past relationships....and because they are past relationship is exactly where they should be in the persons life....What happens is when they bring the past into the future....again they are asking for failure.....get it, got it....good.


And when people can get past the knee jerk reaction of fear = hate then that is when they truly start to live.

trust is but a word.. fear is but a word, love is but a word, hate is but a word. They only exist if you let them/know them and untill people get mentally strong enough to get past the words lonely, wanting,greed,anger,love,trust and actually start to unteach themselves, they will be in danger of the goods and the bads that come with those words. By knowing these words and living by them gives you weakness.This was not aimed towards a relationship that was simply an example!
Word = " A meaningful sound which stands for an idea"
That idea was thought up of the person who created the word for it. That means someone gave you that word therefore giving you the understanding of it! Have a good day!

I don't trust you






You fill people heads with rubbish....I speak of experience you googled it.....

I fill peoples heads with no rubbish! It is their choice to read and their choice to agree or not agree. It unfortunatly is also their choice to exit it or send an e mail trying to explain why they dont agree and why they are "experts" This isnt a topic for debate these are my writings, they dont change

I was only kidding...and of course the good people of mingle can decide if rubbish...and my answers to yours don't change....but I do humbly apologize for being mean...I just happen to totally disagree