you can change about yourself to make yourself more likeable to that other person (and I dont mean for women to get boob jobs ).

Name one personality trait, or habit you could change that would make it easier for you to find that right person.








myself, I could become more confident, and less nervous in crowds.

I can be moody. I want to change that

I would be less shy

oh Hells bells there is so many...

Just one????

I think I would like to change the fact I tend to get very task oriented at times shutting out other stuff that is just as important till the tasks at hand are done.

Ya know what. I am who I am. I'm loud, I'm brash at times, hell..I would even go so far as to say that I can be obnoxious.

But I wouldn't change a damn thing to make myself more " likeable ".

If someone doesn't like me because of those traits, then they haven't bothered to look inside and see that I am a really great guy with big heart and a lot of love to give the right person.

The woman who can get past the things I mentioned, and see what's INSIDE....will be in for a very pleasant surprise.

I like that answer and I agree- I am ME- and I don't think I should change anything about me just so someone will like me. I like me and if you get to know who I am on the inside- you're gonna like me too.

I would trust more easily.

I'd like to be able to work less and spend more time with my family, especially right now.

Not one thing, not that I am perfect, far from it, I am just comfortable with myself

make more money

So you have no bad habits you would like to change? Maybe stop doing something you feel is wrong (like some people feel they should stop smoking)?

Well that's easy, you take me away, replace me with say... George Clooney, and I'd definately go up in the opinion of teh opposite sex.


But you mean realisticly? I wish I could talk better. I get tongue tied, and there is no person in the world more adept at saying the exact wrong thing at the exact right moment.

But when the out side is all prickly, it's hard to get to the sweet center

True. But that just means that the journey to get there will be all the more worth it.

Besides...I'm not that way all he time. Well....the loud part....yeah.....but I'm only obnoxious on special occasions.

I need to think before I speak. Sometimes I just blurt things out without realizing the affect they will have on the other person.

well I know smoking is bad for me but( and this could be the nicotine talking ) I enjoy it for no
Other wise no I am happy in my life right now even with out a woman in my life, which is a bit odd for me

i would rid myself of paniac attacks...

I need to quit overthinking things.

I have seen an infomercial about a program to help that without drugs. I can't remember the name of it, but it comes on in the middle of the night. May be able to research it on the web.