Ok you meet that special person (online)..... that makes your heart melt.

What do you do????
Would you still date them?
Which issue, or issues would stop you from dating them?

1) They are a different color.
2) Their weight is a little bit too much.
3) They are of a different religion..., or atheist.
4) They live too far....(distance issues)
5) They are in a wheelchair..., or physically challenged.

staying away from this one

Well i would hope that i knew everything they were already, before meeting.

If i found out they had lied, i would just say that i didnt appreciate lies, and that i wouldnt see him again after this visit.

I think its mostly chemistry that can go wrong.

Wouldn't all these things be something you found out before meeting? If so, what's the problem?

But is this not answering the question already I mean if you find that special person and they do in fact make your heart melt and you think that much of them and everything clicks in place. And they are all you have been looking for

Then why would 1-5 matter to you?

Due to the fact all of those things you should already know about them unless they deceived you and lied then well the trust would have been broken and to me TRUST is a big issue. And I would in fact move on.

Ok.. what if you found out about one of the issues, in the process of getting to know them. Which issue if any would change your mind about dating them?

you know, no one is going to answer this with all honesty cause we all have preferences.

i CONCUR!!!

Honestly, religion. I don't know that I could live with atheism due to my own personal relationship with God.

For my life I could not answer this question honestly because I haven't been in the situation.
I can say this, that, and the other, but I don't know for certain, do I?

Any of them would for me if they had been hiding the issue for to build any type of a relationship one must have TRUST. Once you break someones Trust they have in you it is very hard to rebuild. For they will always think you are hiding something along the line. If they can't be honest with me up front then the trust is gone. One can not build a relationship upon lies!!

uuuuummmm why should all of that matter as long as they r honest from the start? And if they make your HEART melt then shoulden't that be enough?

NOT EVERYONE IN THIS WORLD IS PERFECT........

or, what if they were under 30 or over 48?

None as long as they didn't lie about them.

I dont care about any of that....


but.....

if she wasnt a "Mutual Match" I aint touchin it....

OOOOH MY WE FORGOT ABOUT BAD BODY ORDER OR BAD BREATH! I CAN'T HANDLE ANY OF THAT!

All your question are based on ther preference. Now if your trying to get people to give detail, it's not really going to happen. As for me. i have no problem and ther is nothing wrong in who i am looking for what so ever. It's my choice.


So, to answer your question.


1) What i prefer is white, but open to others.

2) I'm a small guy so having to much weight would not work for me. a little don't bother me.

3) As long as they are not trying to push there beliefs on me or trying to convert me I have no problem what so ever.

4)Distance has never been a problem with me. I like to explor and take chances in life. hell get to check a new area out and maybe have some real fun

5)That one would take a hell of a person to make that kind of commitment and to have an open heart. Funny this pops up. I was talking to a friend the other day about this. Most wont because of fear and that is because of lack of understanding. As for me, to jump into a situation i couldn't do. Then again, that depends on the situation. Someone your going to have to take care of when they get to a point in life where they can't. Like my friend that has lopus. She will die in the next 10 years and not anything anyone can do about it. Would i date her, yes and thats because she is no different from anyone else in this world and she keeps on living like any of us. I could go on about this,but you get the point.

add politics and I'll take numbers 3 and 4; religion and distance.

uuummmmm I would squash u!