Topic: Online dating sucks for me. What should I do? | |
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Find the two best dating site forums you can. I know of a couple of good ones. Then put up a nice well written profile, a nice picture, then post on the forums. Post interesting topics. Answer others people's topics with your comments and be a gentleman. Don't be rude and ignore the trolls. After a while you be able to contact other forum girls and they probably will reply and you will have a greater chance of success. I can't promise success, I don't know you, but you chances will be better (unless you're a forum jerk). Don't be in a hurry either. Once you've been on the forums for a while you become a living breathing person instead of just another one of 100's of random messages girls get every week. Try it...it works....just be patient. You'll find someone when you stop trying so hard. What are the best two forums on this site my dear? |
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just get drunk and forget all about it..works for me...
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I am in college my friend. Believe me, there are so many girls out there and I tried. LOL
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maybe you havent tried on the right one?
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I am in college my friend. Believe me, there are so many girls out there and I tried. LOL ![]() |
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It only sucks for you...
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You're only 23...this takes time and your young. Quit trying to be in a hurry......There are alot of great people here. Get to know us and "The One" will come along.
In the meantime......Welcome to the Mingle family! |
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I'll give you some tips. First... no woman (well self respecting woman) wants someone desperate. And you... come across as very desperate. Women also don't like all the negative attitudes. Why are you searching high and low... just on the internet?? Why aren't you out there being a regular 23 year old?? You know, having a life. Going out with friends. Hobbies. Women like guys that have their own lives too. Don't make it such a priority. Go out there, have fun. Be yourself. Make friends. Love comes to you, you don't come to love.
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Perhaps I will try and maybe things will get alot better
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I know I know I know. I am a good artist. I go to school to become a animator. I do have a life like everybody else. I'm not saying I'm desperate. I just wanted to see if I have successes at it.
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I had success. I met my bf on here. But that's not what I was focused on. I was focused on being me, having fun, still living my own life.
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I know I know I know. I am a good artist. I go to school to become a animator. I do have a life like everybody else. I'm not saying I'm desperate. I just wanted to see if I have successes at it. |
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Only 499 nigerians? You are one of the lucky ones!
Start with a nice profile, that reflects who you are, NOT who you would love to be. Post decent pictures and actual ones not 20 years 500 pounds less than the actual you. Do not trust messages from people that tell you i love you the first email (or the first month for that matter) There are either spammers or they have some mental issue. Do not go out on dates expecting to find love or sex. And most important NO MONEY TO ANYBODY.... Furthermore... My first dates.... DUTCH |
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Stay single it's cheaper,
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That does it I am getting a total body makeover. I can't even get the Nigerians to hit on me...
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Wah...Wah...Wah...I am such a loser...nobody likes me...Wah...why can't I find love on this site...Waah...does anybody have any advise for me...wah..I'm gonna jump off the roof of my 3-story apt. building...wah...wah...pease feel sorry for me...
Does this crap drive anybody else as crazy as it does me???...wah...wah...wah...can't we send these whiners to 'time-out' in the Whiner Room? |
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