okay so i woke up this mouring n went to my now ex girlfriends facebook to see her profile picture is with her new bf...i guess i seen it coming...i jus dont understand why she went behind my back again...this is like the 3rd time shes done this...n maybe its my fault for being hurt becuz i kept taking her back but how do u let go of something that u have a deep deep love for...n im not looking for anybody to feel sorry for me...i jus would like some friends to talk me through this becuz ive already cried for 2 hours becuz of this...

Those are some emotional and hard times you are going through. In time you will heal though.

The question is: How many times do you want to get hurt from her?

Sometimes you have to just move on and try to learn from these kind of experiences.


Good Luck. I hope you find some good friends on Mingle2.

just someone you have to let go of sounds like she comes back to you because she has someone to fall back on. if thats so you just have to move on and not let her back in when she comes a callin. i know its easier said than done and it hurts but you just gotta move on

So you were together yesterday and now you're not? And you know this because she has a new BF according to Facebook?

Do I have this right?

DD87, I'm so sorry you are going through such a rough time. We all go through this stuff at some point. Just try to keep in site that at some time in the future, the pain will abate. I just hope you won't let her back in again, or you may ruin your future chances to find a reciprocal and equal love.

first time shame on her
second time shame on you
third time...um..hmmmmmmm,anyway time will heal this so move on try to talk to some friends on the phone or in person and hope you learned your lesson.

I'm still in love with him but, we're making progress. We're freind's and will allway's be there for one another. That mean's more to me than anything else in the world.

I have a best friend who is going through the same thing. I feel really bad cause the love is there for him and not her. I really hope you can find yourself and figure things out. We're all here for you and if you need someone we'll all listen. As for her.....forget about her. Sounds like you have a heart of gold and she's not worthy of your heart. I KNOW you'll find someone who loves it. Just takes time...takes a LOT of time but, it'll work....

that is right n also on her Myspace she says shes in a relationship n before it didnt

Time will heal this, you just need to make new friends, friends will take your mind off of it and help you.

Pick yourself up, she is moving on, so this is what you need to do as well

She's moving on and, it's time for you to do the same. Two ppl are rarely on the same page at the same time.She took a step, now it's your turn.

seems to be the big thing post new pics of you new love before you even let your old love know about the new relationship sorry to hear that's happened to you in time the pain will fade

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww


wellllll , YOU are much better off with out some one like THAT
Facebook helped me discover the fella I was seeing was a scum bag !! it hurts ....... BUT !! YOU DONT NEED someone who hurts you !!

Avoid contact and distance helps a little. It is tough but you don't want to be "the backup guy".

But weren't YOU the BF before?

I'm confused....

well thank u babe

Yeah well, stop looking at her facebook and myspace. Its going to be set to private pretty quick anyway, and if you haven't been cut from the friends list, you will be.
That kinda stuff will just hurt you some more, so stop that right now.

Get Movin' on

If I hit you in the face with a Stilson wrench, would you let me do it again? And again. Probably not, even though you really like me and you know how much pleasure I derive from working you over with that wrench.

Unless you want this skank to keep using you as a punching bag then man up. Nobody likes to get hurt but that's what she's dishing out to you. Good luck.

why are you using face book to stalk her,