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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Not a Hollywood couple comparison. A 'clique' comparison. I just hate the word 'clique' cause it has stirred up so many mean threads lately.... Just stating that when you date within a group, rumors tend to fly. I am dating Engraven Image. We have had tons of emails when people found out. Even had one guy email me and then email Engraven with my response to try and cause a rift cause he was pissed I picked E over him. No two people deserve each other more than the two of you. That said, I'm meeting my  sweetie this weekend, and it's fairly public, and no one has emailed either one of us to warn of each other, on the contrary, I've gotten wonderful emails about him and his character and how they wish us well....(We both have friends on this site that we have met IRL) My friends have befriended him, and his have befriended me...
I think it's about perspective, who cares what a bunch of people you don't know say, and if either ones gives in to the "gossip" then that person is just a weak person to begin with. |
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No two people deserve each other more than the two of you. That said, I'm meeting my sweetie this weekend, and it's fairly public, and no one has emailed either one of us to warn of each other, on the contrary, I've gotten wonderful emails about him and his character and how they wish us well....(We both have friends on this site that we have met IRL) My friends have befriended him, and his have befriended me...
I think it's about perspective, who cares what a bunch of people you don't know say, and if either ones gives in to the "gossip" then that person is just a weak person to begin with. So, you didn't get my emails.  Stupid mingle2 malfunctions. 
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No two people deserve each other more than the two of you. That said, I'm meeting my sweetie this weekend, and it's fairly public, and no one has emailed either one of us to warn of each other, on the contrary, I've gotten wonderful emails about him and his character and how they wish us well....(We both have friends on this site that we have met IRL) My friends have befriended him, and his have befriended me...
I think it's about perspective, who cares what a bunch of people you don't know say, and if either ones gives in to the "gossip" then that person is just a weak person to begin with. So, you didn't get my emails. Stupid mingle2 malfunctions.
Yeah right Lily. You didnt get my jealous lesbian emails demanding an explanation for why you chose him over me. 
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Not a Hollywood couple comparison. A 'clique' comparison. I just hate the word 'clique' cause it has stirred up so many mean threads lately.... Just stating that when you date within a group, rumors tend to fly. I am dating Engraven Image. We have had tons of emails when people found out. Even had one guy email me and then email Engraven with my response to try and cause a rift cause he was pissed I picked E over him. No two people deserve each other more than the two of you. That said, I'm meeting my sweetie this weekend, and it's fairly public, and no one has emailed either one of us to warn of each other, on the contrary, I've gotten wonderful emails about him and his character and how they wish us well....(We both have friends on this site that we have met IRL) My friends have befriended him, and his have befriended me...
I think it's about perspective, who cares what a bunch of people you don't know say, and if either ones gives in to the "gossip" then that person is just a weak person to begin with. WARNING WARNING Andy is a nut |
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So, you didn't get my emails. Stupid mingle2 malfunctions.
You got me for a minute.... I was like "Oh no, I didn't get Ruth's emails...then I saw the winky face... I'm so blonde. |
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No two people deserve each other more than the two of you. That said, I'm meeting my sweetie this weekend, and it's fairly public, and no one has emailed either one of us to warn of each other, on the contrary, I've gotten wonderful emails about him and his character and how they wish us well....(We both have friends on this site that we have met IRL) My friends have befriended him, and his have befriended me...
I think it's about perspective, who cares what a bunch of people you don't know say, and if either ones gives in to the "gossip" then that person is just a weak person to begin with. So, you didn't get my emails. Stupid mingle2 malfunctions.
Yeah right Lily. You didnt get my jealous lesbian emails demanding an explanation for why you chose him over me.
Awe, I honor my lesbian commitments.... I SAID you were the only woman in my life... 
I'm tricky like that.... |
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Shes dating a man from this forum and I still dont understand how this was not brought upon yourself if you CHOSE to make it public on this forum exactly who you were involved with? Why did you do that if you were uncomfortable what a bunch of anonymous strangers would think on an electronic relay chat forum? I wasn't and am still not uncomfortable. However, in the beginnings of this relationship, me and E hit a road bump with one of my jobs. After taking some time out and talking, we overcame it and are together again. Here's another example then. Peccy and Lil'Angel. Remember them? The stress of the people here has made a relationship a bit tricky. I do not know the full story, but I do know that they were very much in love, but I have known people from Mingle to get jealous. I, myself, have been a witness to many friends get hurt by jealous people here. Some people think they know what is best for everyone else. Some people aren't happy if they are second choice. Some people aren't happy when the attention of a handsome and charming man is taken from them. Some people want the best for the happy couple. Some people want to see them succeed. And some people try their hardest to sabotage. IT HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. Not just here on Mingle. Remember gossip in High School and Jr High? It's the same here. But you have to learn to not sweat the small stuff. Having an online relationship in a public forum is always tricky. People talk. People assume things. Just like how everyone assumed Miley Cyrus was dating that one dude. It is life. Assumptions run amuck everywhere. Doesn't matter if online or off... |
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Yeah right Lily. You didnt get my jealous lesbian emails demanding an explanation for why you chose him over me.
Forget it. She's obviously tossed us both aside. |
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Ive been waiting for a long ass time.. still waiting.... yep still waiting!!!
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WARNING WARNING Andy is a nut Why do you think he is flying a million miles to meet me??? He HAS to be crazy for that... |
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So, you didn't get my emails. Stupid mingle2 malfunctions.
You got me for a minute.... I was like "Oh no, I didn't get Ruth's emails...then I saw the winky face... I'm so blonde. 
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Yeah right Lily. You didnt get my jealous lesbian emails demanding an explanation for why you chose him over me.
Forget it. She's obviously tossed us both aside. ((Ruth)) ((Krimsa)) ((Missy)) all my lovies....
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No two people deserve each other more than the two of you. That said, I'm meeting my sweetie this weekend, and it's fairly public, and no one has emailed either one of us to warn of each other, on the contrary, I've gotten wonderful emails about him and his character and how they wish us well....(We both have friends on this site that we have met IRL) My friends have befriended him, and his have befriended me...
I think it's about perspective, who cares what a bunch of people you don't know say, and if either ones gives in to the "gossip" then that person is just a weak person to begin with. That was sweet of you, Lily! We have heard a lot of that lately. People are starting to realise how serious we are about each other and how when we post we are quite similar. I am excited for you and your new love! Love is grand! I know you two will be awesome together! And I hope to see you in the Mingle success forums soon! |
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Shes dating a man from this forum and I still dont understand how this was not brought upon yourself if you CHOSE to make it public on this forum exactly who you were involved with? Why did you do that if you were uncomfortable what a bunch of anonymous strangers would think on an electronic relay chat forum? I wasn't and am still not uncomfortable. However, in the beginnings of this relationship, me and E hit a road bump with one of my jobs. After taking some time out and talking, we overcame it and are together again. Here's another example then. Peccy and Lil'Angel. Remember them? The stress of the people here has made a relationship a bit tricky. I do not know the full story, but I do know that they were very much in love, but I have known people from Mingle to get jealous. I, myself, have been a witness to many friends get hurt by jealous people here. Some people think they know what is best for everyone else. Some people aren't happy if they are second choice. Some people aren't happy when the attention of a handsome and charming man is taken from them. Some people want the best for the happy couple. Some people want to see them succeed. And some people try their hardest to sabotage. IT HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. Not just here on Mingle. Remember gossip in High School and Jr High? It's the same here. But you have to learn to not sweat the small stuff. Having an online relationship in a public forum is always tricky. People talk. People assume things. Just like how everyone assumed Miley Cyrus was dating that one dude. It is life. Assumptions run amuck everywhere. Doesn't matter if online or off... That's a great little story, but to be honest, it's never happened to me... I've only come across well wishers in my whole life when it has come to my relationships. and the couple you spoke about, you are correct, you do not know the whole story... |
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can i lick some female in here...i'm in a licking mood
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can I tell you a secret, Lily?
I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!!!! Okay, I'm done... Fer now.... |
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WARNING WARNING Andy is a nut Why do you think he is flying a million miles to meet me??? He HAS to be crazy for that... Lily, I don't know him. Where is he coming from? |
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WARNING WARNING Andy is a nut Why do you think he is flying a million miles to meet me??? He HAS to be crazy for that... Lily, I don't know him. Where is he coming from? Across the pond....let's just say "'e 'as to go true customs lass" |
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Well I still feel that if you had kept it to yourselves than you would have nothing to worry about. Especially since it matters to you what others think on here about your relationship.
The point Im making is you honestly cant hold anyone else accountable for whatever repercussions you face now or in the future on this website. |
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WARNING WARNING Andy is a nut Why do you think he is flying a million miles to meet me??? He HAS to be crazy for that... Lily, I don't know him. Where is he coming from? Across the pond....let's just say "'e 'as to go true customs lass" OMG, that's far. I hope you have a great weekend.  
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