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Topic: Why is it so damn hard?
ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:06 PM
I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
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mssilverfox's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:07 PM
Edited by mssilverfox on Sat 11/15/08 05:08 PM
Sometimes we all feel that way...hang in there flowerforyou
Hey, I used to live in Mesa ..

ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:08 PM
Close I am in Tempe.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:09 PM

I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
tears


Men just suck!!rant rant laugh laugh laugh

Etrain's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:09 PM
flowerforyou

ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:11 PM
I dont think all men suck, I just need to find ONE lol I dont want anymore then that. I am usually pretty good at being alone and I dont really mind it, but I am ready to find someone and it just is not working lol I am soooooooo tired of sitting home alone on the weekends hoping my email will send me someone lol

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Sat 11/15/08 05:11 PM

I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
tears
flowerforyou :heart: Hey Shag,,,I missed you girl..
And WE both seem to have that problem your writing about here,lol Good to see you here as always...:banana:

Redshirt's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:11 PM
Vent away...feel like doing the same thing tonight.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:13 PM
Life just suck's! That's why.

ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:13 PM
Hello IAM, I am still around, I dont post much anymore as there seems to be way to much drama. I stay away from that as I see it all the time at work~

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:13 PM

I dont think all men suck, I just need to find ONE lol I dont want anymore then that. I am usually pretty good at being alone and I dont really mind it, but I am ready to find someone and it just is not working lol I am soooooooo tired of sitting home alone on the weekends hoping my email will send me someone lol


I hear ya. I took me about a year, after my divorce, to start dating. I am confident it'll happen, but keep on venting. I will just come up with crazy things to say to make you laugh.

"Monkey balls!!!"

See...you are probably laughing now. Or thinkin I am weird. laugh laugh laugh

ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:14 PM
Yes I got a good laugh, as I have seen a lot of balls but I dont think I saw them from a monkey yet!
I am not down and out just a little discurage I think. I do not want to be at home ~~~~~~ lol

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:15 PM

Yes I got a good laugh, as I have seen a lot of balls but I dont think I saw them from a monkey yet!
I am not down and out just a little discurage I think. I do not want to be at home ~~~~~~ lol


Well, go outside, find some stray cats, and do cat tossing at kids who are riding by on bikes. It is so much fun.

no photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:18 PM
Awwwww, hang in there girl. It takes time to get a quality man. And you know you only deserve top quality!!!

flowerforyou

ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:18 PM
I might look at their balls but I am NOT going to toss them at kids lol

Redshirt's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:19 PM

Life just suck's! That's why.




This is going to sound strange. Feel that way right now, but am also optimistic. Need to believe that there is a woman out there I can relate to.

ShagnaC's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:19 PM
Thank you Heather, I keep holding onto that thought but I am hanging on there with a string. I want that companionship!

Redshirt's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:24 PM
Edited by Redshirt on Sat 11/15/08 05:26 PM
Back at ya' waving

no photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:37 PM
I compare finding another person to a game of chess.

-If you tell the other person all of your moves, you are sure to lose.

-If you play the game crappy, you are going to lose too.

-When you lose, make sure you know why to lost. Otherwise you're destined to lose in the same way again.

-If you study other people's games, you'll learn strategies to win.

-The more you play, the better chance you win.

ABS929cbrrr's photo
Sat 11/15/08 05:56 PM

I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
tears


i feel the same way...i just cant find any decent women to persure after my divorce. its like its a chrime to be able to find someone again

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