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I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
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Edited by
mssilverfox
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Sat 11/15/08 05:08 PM
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Sometimes we all feel that way...hang in there
Hey, I used to live in Mesa .. |
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Close I am in Tempe.
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I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some.. Men just suck!! |
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I dont think all men suck, I just need to find ONE lol I dont want anymore then that. I am usually pretty good at being alone and I dont really mind it, but I am ready to find someone and it just is not working lol I am soooooooo tired of sitting home alone on the weekends hoping my email will send me someone lol
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I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some.. And WE both seem to have that problem your writing about here,lol Good to see you here as always... |
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Vent away...feel like doing the same thing tonight.
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Life just suck's! That's why.
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Hello IAM, I am still around, I dont post much anymore as there seems to be way to much drama. I stay away from that as I see it all the time at work~
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I dont think all men suck, I just need to find ONE lol I dont want anymore then that. I am usually pretty good at being alone and I dont really mind it, but I am ready to find someone and it just is not working lol I am soooooooo tired of sitting home alone on the weekends hoping my email will send me someone lol I hear ya. I took me about a year, after my divorce, to start dating. I am confident it'll happen, but keep on venting. I will just come up with crazy things to say to make you laugh. "Monkey balls!!!" See...you are probably laughing now. Or thinkin I am weird. |
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Yes I got a good laugh, as I have seen a lot of balls but I dont think I saw them from a monkey yet!
I am not down and out just a little discurage I think. I do not want to be at home ~~~~~~ lol |
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Yes I got a good laugh, as I have seen a lot of balls but I dont think I saw them from a monkey yet! I am not down and out just a little discurage I think. I do not want to be at home ~~~~~~ lol Well, go outside, find some stray cats, and do cat tossing at kids who are riding by on bikes. It is so much fun. |
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Awwwww, hang in there girl. It takes time to get a quality man. And you know you only deserve top quality!!!
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I might look at their balls but I am NOT going to toss them at kids lol
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Life just suck's! That's why. This is going to sound strange. Feel that way right now, but am also optimistic. Need to believe that there is a woman out there I can relate to. |
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Thank you Heather, I keep holding onto that thought but I am hanging on there with a string. I want that companionship!
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Edited by
Redshirt
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Sat 11/15/08 05:26 PM
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Back at ya'
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I compare finding another person to a game of chess.
-If you tell the other person all of your moves, you are sure to lose. -If you play the game crappy, you are going to lose too. -When you lose, make sure you know why to lost. Otherwise you're destined to lose in the same way again. -If you study other people's games, you'll learn strategies to win. -The more you play, the better chance you win. |
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I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some.. i feel the same way...i just cant find any decent women to persure after my divorce. its like its a chrime to be able to find someone again |
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