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Yes that did raise redflags to me..therefore, I questioned him about it often..in which he would always respond with "it's nobody's business".. I had always said that when people meet, they are excited about telling. Ok I dont' know what your story is so I am not making a judgement but here is something to ponder. I was talking to the guy last summer I really like him he lived across the states from me. As soon as we let it out on the forums that we were talking the chit started. I mean people went so far as to say I was playing him because I was dating other people at the same time. WE weren't exclusive by his words I got nude pictures sent to me that he was supposedly a stripper in his spare time. The harrassment and bombardment of garbage was horrific. So to me if I was going on a first meet and hadn't met yet I wouldn't advertise it. I have never seen people act more like jackels than people in my life. ONE woman that was supposed to be my friend doctored emails even that I supposedly said crap. So again I would be in agreement with him on this one. I also believe that there are as many women players are there are men. I have to many male friends that cry on my shoulder. Now again I am not sure what happened to you and I want to be clear I do have empathy for your pain. It was just to clarify a meet.. nothing more personal than that. And I thank you for your empathy, but trust me, I'm not "hurt" by him.. I just think now that his whole game/act is nothing but a JOKE. That's where the saying comes in: Fool me once, shame on you.. fool me twice, shame on me. |
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Edited by
Jules0565
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Mon 11/10/08 05:13 PM
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Yes that did raise redflags to me..therefore, I questioned him about it often..in which he would always respond with "it's nobody's business".. I had always said that when people meet, they are excited about telling. Ok I dont' know what your story is so I am not making a judgement but here is something to ponder. I was talking to the guy last summer I really like him he lived across the states from me. As soon as we let it out on the forums that we were talking the chit started. I mean people went so far as to say I was playing him because I was dating other people at the same time. WE weren't exclusive by his words I got nude pictures sent to me that he was supposedly a stripper in his spare time. The harrassment and bombardment of garbage was horrific. So to me if I was going on a first meet and hadn't met yet I wouldn't advertise it. I have never seen people act more like jackels than people in my life. ONE woman that was supposed to be my friend doctored emails even that I supposedly said crap. So again I would be in agreement with him on this one. I also believe that there are as many women players are there are men. I have to many male friends that cry on my shoulder. Now again I am not sure what happened to you and I want to be clear I do have empathy for your pain. WOW! Seriously? I think people do that kind of thing out of jealousy. Sorry that happened to you. 
Jealousy? No jealousy here. I'm guilty in believing all the lies/lines he used. He's a smooooooth one for sure. |
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
Ok I am in the dark also so does this mean I have no life either. LOL |
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Jealousy? No jealousy here. I'm guilty in believing all the lies/lines he used. He's a smooooooth one for sure. I was talking about her particular situation where people intentionally lied to them. |
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
seriously, I never have.. but I SHOULD have!!! It surely would have saved me a LOT of time spent on the phone (hours upon hours, a 3hr drive there, money spent paying his cell bill and all the other bullchit after. |
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
Paranoid? 
I suppose there are some women who do, but the women I am friends with on here don't. |
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
seriously, I never have.. but I SHOULD have!!! It surely would have saved me a LOT of time spent on the phone (hours upon hours, a 3hr drive there, money spent paying his cell bill and all the other bullchit after. crap I would be pisst...YOU paid his cell phone bill, He must have been a smooth talker. I know in my state if he stated any where that he would pay you back I would get him in small claims court. |
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
seriously, I never have.. but I SHOULD have!!! It surely would have saved me a LOT of time spent on the phone (hours upon hours, a 3hr drive there, money spent paying his cell bill and all the other bullchit after. jules im sorry it happened to you though
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
seriously, I never have.. but I SHOULD have!!! It surely would have saved me a LOT of time spent on the phone (hours upon hours, a 3hr drive there, money spent paying his cell bill and all the other bullchit after. crap I would be pisst...YOU paid his cell phone bill, He must have been a smooth talker. I know in my state if he stated any where that he would pay you back I would get him in small claims court. Nahh what's done is done.. he isn't worth any more of my time. |
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come on now i have a feelin you women huddle up and discuss things, like who are players and who ain't.or who are sluts and who are non sluts.who you like and who you don't like.you think about all these things while smokin a cig and sippin on what ever is the alcohol of your choice.then create threads that only the ones who get the hidden messege respond while you pet your cat or feefee dog.and you probably have that smokers laugh and voice......sorry did i figure it out,cause i have no life at this time either.
seriously, I never have.. but I SHOULD have!!! It surely would have saved me a LOT of time spent on the phone (hours upon hours, a 3hr drive there, money spent paying his cell bill and all the other bullchit after. jules im sorry it happened to you though
Thank you very much. 
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If I were in your situation, I don't know that I'd "out" the person on a thread, that would be opening yourself up to criticism that perhaps would be unfair, (the dirty laundry syndrome) especially if he has friends here. I would tell those I felt a friendship with in private.
To some, it won't matter how many times they're warned, they'll still fall for his con. If it were someone that I could come in contact with, I would appreicate and want a warning. If I chose to get in some kind of relationship afterwards, I'd have no one but myself to blame. |
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If I were in your situation, I don't know that I'd "out" the person on a thread, that would be opening yourself up to criticism that perhaps would be unfair, (the dirty laundry syndrome) especially if he has friends here. I would tell those I felt a friendship with in private. To some, it won't matter how many times they're warned, they'll still fall for his con. If it were someone that I could come in contact with, I would appreicate and want a warning. If I chose to get in some kind of relationship afterwards, I'd have no one but myself to blame. I wouldn't put his name out here on a thread. |
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Edited by
Engraven_Image
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Mon 11/10/08 05:57 PM
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Most definitely, and hey this should go with some of the females on here too. I am looking for an honest, faithful, and true relationship, but it seems the ones that have been going out on the dates with me are in it for the sex or money. So many people think I am picky, but that's not it. I keep getting played, and I'm not going to allow that to happen to myself again.
So many women I talk with even get upset after I do not pursue a date with them because they are into drugs or unfaithful, or they just desire alot of sex with me and they can't seem to talk about much of anything different. I guess I'm just not like most males out there. |
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Most definitely, and hey this should go with some of the females on here too. I am looking for an honest, faithful, and true relationship, but it seems the ones that have been going out on the dates with me are in it for the sex or money. So many people think I am picky, but that's not it. I keep getting played, and I'm not going to allow that to happen to myself again. So many women I talk with even get upset after I do not pursue a date with them because they are into drugs or unfaithful, or they just desire alot of sex with me and they can't seem to talk about much of anything different. I guess I'm just not like most males out there. I agree..I know that it's not only men, but women as well. Thanks for your post. |
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 You're welcome Jules!
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