Topic: Need Help on my profile
Bruce41's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:04 PM
Edited by Bruce41 on Mon 11/10/08 12:05 PM
Other then updating my pics...could someone please review my profile,i'm seperated and posted the reason why.

But seems alot of ladies won't even talk to seperated guys like myself,I just had alot of hard luck and wanting to meet a nice lady & just start out as friends.

oh well thanks whoever can help me out.


jamieann's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:15 PM
Maybe try starting your profile with info about what you like and what you are looking for, and save the explanations for when people ask or leave it until the end :-) Good luck!

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:24 PM
Way too much information. How about, my divorce will be final in about a month.... or better yet...

Start dating when you are divorced. No one wants to hear it, sorry to say. At least, I don't. If I saw your profile, I'd move right on along. I don't date married, and in a profile, that is about YOU, not her.

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:25 PM
And really... don't whine about how hard it is to meet women while you are MARRIED. Why can't you wait?

Bruce41's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:42 PM
hmmm seems like ppl are brutal here np thanks for your advice,I could be a totall liar & say i'm single like most but i'm a honest guy.

And wanted anyone that viewed my profile to realize that.

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:43 PM
You asked for it, no one asked you to post here. I'm being honest, was I supposed to coat that with sugar or frosting or something? I didn't read that anywhere...

There is a difference between honesty and too much information. Just saying....

Bruce41's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:49 PM
Edited by Bruce41 on Mon 11/10/08 12:50 PM
I'm not upset and appreciate your comment lilith401,Just trying to figure out why seperated people aren't allowed to date or make friends.

But everyone is welcome to their own opinions and i see you look at seperated as married.

That's why i asked for help to see if i need to remove that on my profile.

Again thanks for the comments.

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 12:51 PM
Separated is married. There is no other way to look at it.

You are welcome....

Bruce41's photo
Mon 11/10/08 01:03 PM
Ok thanks again but is it wrong for someone like myself to date or try to make friends,basically i'm trying to meet a nice lady to go out with and share some fun,so i guess i should put looking for friends on my profile.

I'm a nice guy and seems like i get looked down on because of my seperated status.

But again thanks for all the comments i just need input like you ladies are giving me.

THANKS ALL!!!