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Topic: Is sex with your ex a good idea?
RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:26 PM
Speaking from experience that is how my ex and me got remarried. We also had another child the second time. I wouldn't change the past. I love both children but I am still glad I went through the divorce. It made sense then and it still makes sense.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:48 PM

We didn't break up over the sex. She got mad at me for some stupid reason and she justified being single while she was Europe.

Only when she comes back does she realize that it was a stupid reason and wants to meet up because she has "unsettled emotions about our relationship". What type of B.S. is that?

Yeah I'm angry. She broke my heart and there is no way I can love her. I can't be emotionally involved with someone that petty, that selfish and that fickle... but I do want to f*** her brains out!

Although I know my heart is weak, and this may be a scheme on her end to get me back. Everyone is telling me to stay away. But like all men I am weak and stupid when we think with our penis. But I think that if I can find someone else to have mind blowing sex with, then I will be okay.


"Unsettled Emotions about our relationship" sounds like your Ex is pregnant; didn't figure it out until she is too far gone to get an abortion because she figured her cycle was off do to the international travel and is comeing back to have the kid here with all the privileges that go with it such as lifelong childsupport/alimoney. Merry Christmas Daddy. lol

Cinderella75's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:32 AM


We didn't break up over the sex. She got mad at me for some stupid reason and she justified being single while she was Europe.

Only when she comes back does she realize that it was a stupid reason and wants to meet up because she has "unsettled emotions about our relationship". What type of B.S. is that?

Yeah I'm angry. She broke my heart and there is no way I can love her. I can't be emotionally involved with someone that petty, that selfish and that fickle... but I do want to f*** her brains out!

Although I know my heart is weak, and this may be a scheme on her end to get me back. Everyone is telling me to stay away. But like all men I am weak and stupid when we think with our penis. But I think that if I can find someone else to have mind blowing sex with, then I will be okay.


"Unsettled Emotions about our relationship" sounds like your Ex is pregnant; didn't figure it out until she is too far gone to get an abortion because she figured her cycle was off do to the international travel and is comeing back to have the kid here with all the privileges that go with it such as lifelong childsupport/alimoney. Merry Christmas Daddy. lol


Ok that has to be the worst case scenario!!
Ha ha I am sure it is not THAT BAD! well at least lets hope not.

no photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:54 AM
Ex Sex!!!! noway

Its never as good as you remembered it!!!noway

tundraguy's photo
Tue 11/11/08 05:15 PM
Edited by tundraguy on Tue 11/11/08 05:15 PM
gypsy is right. it better!! lolol just kidding. get over it dude and move on you will thank yourself later. stop thinking with mini you

alexiateigra's photo
Tue 11/11/08 06:17 PM


Well Ummm the Violent Sex comment is a little disturbing but if that's what you were into when you were together then well whatever floats your boat- having sex with the ex is tricky- if you are only looking for a physical release- you need to be clear on that so noone gets the wrong idea.

I had a deal with my ex- we had sex with each other til one of us found someone we wanted to be with and then we stopped being with each other- it worked out fine but we set boundaries- it can work but you have to be clear in what you want.


My ex did like some kink and violence when we had sex. But the difference is that there was love before (or so I thought). I do not love her anymore but I am still angry with her. That anger is most likely to come out during sex. I would never hurt her (or any women for that matter), but there is this strong desire to have intense angry sex with her.





Bad Idea, but it is understandable that you want some angry sex but, that would only cheapen her and you. Truthfully, even the lowest of scum deserves better treatment than that. Best thing to do is put on the plastic glove & get out the vaseline and use your imagination.


tundraguy's photo
Tue 11/11/08 07:35 PM
still no

alonenotlonely's photo
Tue 11/11/08 07:39 PM

While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other.

Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life.

After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her.

Good idea or bad?


Maybe, you should reread your profile!

browneyedmom1973's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:46 AM
bad idea cause u might she be connected or they who might be confused want more heart get broken

7z3r05's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:48 AM
its all about the closure. what a terrible idea.

UrDReAMgUrl2008's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:00 AM
i think thats a good idea

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Fri 11/14/08 10:17 AM
find somewhere else to stick it....

Riding_Dubz's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:44 AM
Crush it


devil devil devil devil

jeffmov's photo
Fri 11/14/08 02:31 PM
I think its a good idea,,,, No strings attached...better do it twice

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