..."since I've not been involved in any relationship for over 2 1/2 years"....."I get mutual matches and write to them all"....but for some strange reason, "I wind up getting a cold shoulder"......"is it because they write to one another and talk about me"...and my way of writing and what I say..."is it too much ?"..."Someone Please...tell me whats what"

spend time in the forums, become a part of the family and allow us all to get to know you

I think that happens to all of us. Just pick and choose the ones that you want to really get to know and if they dont answer just move on, dont worry about it too much. When the time is right you will meet that special someone. Good luck and have fun here in the forums.

tell them nothing!!!! you must resist at all cost!!!!!!!!!

I think the reason is that the women on these sites outnumber the men and they get a ton of messages.It's worse when they actually talk to you and you are thinking "that conversation went well" only to have them NOT talk to you again.Good luck I think it's just a matter of Time,Patience,and maybe some Luck.

Your not alone it happens to most of us, just stay in the forums it's the best way to meet people

Awe I'm sorry to hear that is happening to you! You should share as much or as little as you want hon! There is no wrong or right way to approach someone. You should be yourself always. If they are going to like you, it should be for who you are! But I do agree...post in the forums as much as possible and get yourself noticed. Don't limit yourself to the locals. You will be surprise at how many friends you make and how many more responses you will get. Some people don't post in the forums, but read them. It's a good way of branching out!

That is so true- and you aren't doing anything wrong- some people don't log on for a long time or they just ignore the mutual match- its really just a game of luck and patience- just post in the forums and let everyone get to know you and you will find that special someone or at least make some really good friends. Just give it some time

it is amazing how many cool people you meet herei do a lot of posting now. lol i sometimes get frustrated if i dont find a topic right away to post on lol. the people on here are soo nice and supportive and offer so much insight on so many different things

Yes this site rocks for meeting people! The best site I've been on and I've been on just about all of them, lol!