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Topic: I give up!
Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/08/08 12:37 AM

filled to the brim with pure white hatred.
No Hate takes too much energy! Everyone is not the same! There is a world of good & bad everywhere we turn! :wink: Just because your hurting does not mean u turn it into HATE!

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Sat 11/08/08 12:38 AM

thats shark. and i cant. im too frustrated.
You need a waltec!!!laugh and a diet coke!drinker

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/08/08 12:39 AM
i need a valium and a bowl.

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/08/08 12:39 AM
im not even asking for a girl. just chemicals.

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Sat 11/08/08 12:39 AM
Edited by 7z3r05 on Sat 11/08/08 12:40 AM
im not even asking for a girl. just chemicals. lord knows a girl is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too far out for my reach. i dont lug concrete blocks around for a living. god forbid i study a science or anything.

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Sat 11/08/08 12:40 AM
Yes, WE are ALL damaged through our pains in having love fail us. For whatever the reason,,WE didn't work or WE would not be here on a dating site TRYING to find a REAL person in our MINDS.
But, that is just life.
You have to realize that most people on a dating site do not just suffer the past problems of being hurt in life. But many here also NOW turn to play another with false-hood and out right lies to FEEL they are making YOU fall for them,..
THATS the INTERNET!!!
If I havn't learned anything else on these pages. I've learnd that.
Don't believe fully in ANYONE until you really get to meet them in person,,ok,,feel good about them,,talk to them all the time,,but DON'T fall for them til you meet.
Now if your heart was hurt through someone you met in your local life then,,,,,,You still trusted to soon, if you feel HE hurt you.
YOU allowed that to happen,,,,stop-it! lol
I know,,,it all sounds easy,huh?
But we all fall prey to a nice word when we our down....GOOD LUCK with finding a REAL DUDE!!
And THIS is just MY thoughts,and NOT saying everyone is like this...flowerforyou :heart:

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Sat 11/08/08 12:59 AM
whatever

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Sat 11/08/08 01:00 AM
I agree I think we all are damaged but are repairable.We heal but probably wont forget.I think most people on internet dating sites have been hurt in some way. I am finding in my situation that just when I think I am doing alright something pops up to remind me and that's OK because I shouldn't forget or I will make the same mistakes again.I also agree with iam4u's comments.

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Sat 11/08/08 01:10 AM

Yes, WE are ALL damaged through our pains in having love fail us. For whatever the reason,,WE didn't work or WE would not be here on a dating site TRYING to find a REAL person in our MINDS.
But, that is just life.
You have to realize that most people on a dating site do not just suffer the past problems of being hurt in life. But many here also NOW turn to play another with false-hood and out right lies to FEEL they are making YOU fall for them,..
THATS the INTERNET!!!
If I havn't learned anything else on these pages. I've learnd that.
Don't believe fully in ANYONE until you really get to meet them in person,,ok,,feel good about them,,talk to them all the time,,but DON'T fall for them til you meet.
Now if your heart was hurt through someone you met in your local life then,,,,,,You still trusted to soon, if you feel HE hurt you.
YOU allowed that to happen,,,,stop-it! lol
I know,,,it all sounds easy,huh?
But we all fall prey to a nice word when we our down....GOOD LUCK with finding a REAL DUDE!!
And THIS is just MY thoughts,and NOT saying everyone is like this...flowerforyou :heart:
Uuummm it was someone I have text & talked to for months! We finally met.......It's a MESS I give up!

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Sat 11/08/08 01:12 AM
Edited by MorningSong on Sat 11/08/08 01:33 AM

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/08/08 01:33 AM

It's Not about Finding the right person...it's about BEING
the right person.

Be true to you....like who you are....go after your dreams and goals and visons in life.....keep God first (get to know Him first if you don't yet)....
and ask God to help you to make your life the very Best it was meant to be.
And God will.:heart:

And that RIGHT one will come at the right time....especially when you are so busy and happy living life..that you won't even be looking.......and that's when the right one will come along for you, Precious.

The ones who don't appreciate you , are simply just not the right ones for you.

Be Encouraged and Blessed Now Precious......flowerforyou
Thanks for those kind words! :heart:

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Sat 11/08/08 01:40 AM
Edited by MorningSong on Sat 11/08/08 01:43 AM
I just deleted my postlaugh cause I thought...
heck,
you don't need a bunch of advice right now.....
but you probably just need a Big Hug!!

((((((flowerforyouDebbieflowerforyou)))))))


flowerforyou:heart:flowerforyou

Debbie..I am praying though, that the right man will come along for you, Precious.

Be Encouraged Now, Debbie.....and Good Nite.... :heart:

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Sat 11/08/08 01:51 AM
7z3rO5......

Praying things will also start to look brighter for you too, young man.flowerforyou

Be Encouraged Now....flowerforyou


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Sat 11/08/08 02:02 AM

have you ever wanted to hit a motherfukcer in the head with a 2x4? welcome to my existence.
rofl rofl rofl rofl

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