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Edited by
Krimsa
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father.
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Oh for pete's sake... you brought this all on yourself. You made your bed, you laid in it, and now you're crying about her wanting to cuddle.
JEEEEEEEZ. |
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) |
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Oh for pete's sake... you brought this all on yourself. You made your bed, you laid in it, and now you're crying about her wanting to cuddle. JEEEEEEEZ. |
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) |
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) Well thats good but Im just telling you in no uncertain terms you arent weaseling out of this but that would only be if she is pregnant. My personal feeling is you are responsible for this behavior. It just took some questioning to get to what really took place. heh. At first you kind of made it sound liek you were totally blameless. |
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sounds like someone took somebody's virginity itt
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sounds like someone took somebody's virginity itt 18? Eh doubtful |
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I started talkin to an old friend I havent talked to in about 6 years (we were never very close to begin with), about a week ago, and she wanted to hang out with me today. which was fine with me, but I don't sleep until 6AM, because of my work schedule, so I told her I wouldn't be getting up till around 2 or 3 in the afternoon. I woke up at noon to about 5 missed calls, a voicemail, about 10 text messages, and the sound of her knocking at my door...I was a little bit creeped out. So, I'm not the only one who thinks that's creepy right?  Been there,done that.
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sounds like someone took somebody's virginity itt 
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I started talkin to an old friend I havent talked to in about 6 years (we were never very close to begin with), about a week ago, and she wanted to hang out with me today. which was fine with me, but I don't sleep until 6AM, because of my work schedule, so I told her I wouldn't be getting up till around 2 or 3 in the afternoon. I woke up at noon to about 5 missed calls, a voicemail, about 10 text messages, and the sound of her knocking at my door...I was a little bit creeped out. So, I'm not the only one who thinks that's creepy right? Been there,done that.
Were you the stalker Mirror, or the stalkeree? 
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) Well thats good but Im just telling you in no uncertain terms you arent weaseling out of this but that would only be if she is pregnant. My personal feeling is you are responsible for this behavior. It just took some questioning to get to what really took place. heh. At first you kind of made it sound liek you were totally blameless. Oh, my bad, I still think that someone showing up to my house while Im sleeping and they know I'm sleeping, and I told them that I wouldnt be up until later...is a little creepy, even givin the other circumstances |
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) Well thats good but Im just telling you in no uncertain terms you arent weaseling out of this but that would only be if she is pregnant. My personal feeling is you are responsible for this behavior. It just took some questioning to get to what really took place. heh. At first you kind of made it sound liek you were totally blameless. Oh, my bad, I still think that someone showing up to my house while Im sleeping and they know I'm sleeping, and I told them that I wouldnt be up until later...is a little creepy, even givin the other circumstances No one ever said it wasnt. I said she has a right to be upset and hurt but not irrational or dangerous. You initially made it sound like this woman just came out of the blue, then after we dug at you a bit, you admitted to taking advantage of her affections (an 18 year old girl no less) at a party while you were inibriated. Get the difference? |
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Edited by
clayton87
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Fri 11/07/08 01:56 AM
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) Well thats good but Im just telling you in no uncertain terms you arent weaseling out of this but that would only be if she is pregnant. My personal feeling is you are responsible for this behavior. It just took some questioning to get to what really took place. heh. At first you kind of made it sound liek you were totally blameless. Oh, my bad, I still think that someone showing up to my house while Im sleeping and they know I'm sleeping, and I told them that I wouldnt be up until later...is a little creepy, even givin the other circumstances No one ever said it wasnt. I said she has a right to be upset and hurt but not irrational or dangerous. You initially made it sound like this woman just came out of the blue, then after we dug at you a bit, you admitted to taking advantage of her affections (an 18 year old girl no less) at a party while you were inibriated. Get the difference? Yeah, I get it. and I prolly wouldnt be all like scared of her like I am now, if she didnt get all like in my space, and just eased into things. |
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If you remember putting on the condom and you think it was on right and dont recollect it breaking or coming off than its probably okay. If she does claim to be pregnant and is having it, tell her you want a paternity test for certain based on her behavior. If she has done this with you, she might make it a habit of sleeping with various men. Of course if it was your child then you absolutely would need to pay child support if you dont choose to be a father. No cause if I had a child I would absolutely have to be a part of that childs life, just paying child support isnt enought :) Well thats good but Im just telling you in no uncertain terms you arent weaseling out of this but that would only be if she is pregnant. My personal feeling is you are responsible for this behavior. It just took some questioning to get to what really took place. heh. At first you kind of made it sound liek you were totally blameless. Oh, my bad, I still think that someone showing up to my house while Im sleeping and they know I'm sleeping, and I told them that I wouldnt be up until later...is a little creepy, even givin the other circumstances It's creepy. Even if she was pregnant or whatever her emergency was, she didn't have to overreact. |
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Im just turning off the sympathy meter here lets put it that way. You made a really awful error in judgment and you need to make it right
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Im just turning off the sympathy meter here lets put it that way. You made a really awful error in judgment and you need to make it right Uhhh, yep. (didnt we already establish that?) I think this thread is just about dead, everythign that could be said, pretty much has been said. |
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Well maybe the thread is no longer going the way you wanted. Im done for certain.
 
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Well maybe the thread is no longer going the way you wanted. Im done for certain.
No, it went the way I wanted, because I actually got some advice on how to deal with the situation, and in what way. but yeah I'm done too, time to get offline. |
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Look Clayton, Im not giving you a hard time and I actually offered some advice just as everyone else did. Its not the end of the world and you are a 21 year old and bound to screw up sometimes and she screwed up also by allowing that to happen to her at a party with a drunk guy. The fact that she is behaving the way she is now leads me to believe she is REALLY immature and inexperienced with relationships. At the most she might have had some boyfriends in high school but you dont even know that for certain. Think back to what you were doing at 18. Thats why Im saying you just need to handle it and you will have better luck cooling this down if you do that instead of running from the situation. She might just need to hear from you and that will take care of it. Good luck.
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