Yes i did and he still ask for the money and that his son is doing well.

lmao he still asked for the money, since he son was doing well what was
it supposed to be for this time?

was he going in for surgery, was having an addadicktome done lol

King, his is living in UK now because some type of project his is doing.
As soon he finished he be back in the states but, if i send the money
he be here sooner. I told him no way buddy.

Often times in life when something seems too good to be true
it often is. From reading the note the guy sounds like a
nice enough guy but I do gotta agree that for an engineer his
grammer is pretty fucked up! Something makes me wary of
him- the fact that he seems too perfect and the fact that
he wants to get you off this site. It seems awful strange
that he wants to get you off this site. My mother in law
met this guy who promised her the fucking moon and made
himself so perfect in her eyes. She divorced my father in law
cos of him and he took her to the country where his family lives
and now she is isolated. He built an addition onto their home
and got her mother to move from her house and move down there
with them. He is a drunk motherfucker most of the time and
my mother in law is scared to leave the house to visit cos
she's afraid he'll get drunk and let her animals out of the
house. Plus now her mother lives with them- how's she gonna
leave? She has no place to go! I see nothing wrong with the
dude wanting to instant message with you but wanting you to
be off the site completely shows some possesiveness. I would
be very careful and take it slow with this one.

omg! what a joke!! those kind of scammers are easy to spot, with those
big red flags wavin'...

we have to watch out for the little ones too, though..go with your gut,
ya know..

i had a delicious looking man email me today to let him know if i needed
any help with my baby.."HELLO? You dont even know me!" ..thats just a
bit too forward for my liking!! lol

Red flags are often times hard to spot when you are looking for someone
who's attracted to you and wants you for just you...he is delicious
looking as well T!!

I love what nenasmom said...my profile is very short. He read it 14xs?
And the fact he even put a number to it? What a joke and to be so
infatuated from a very informal description of myself? NOT!! For all
this guy knows, I killed my exhusband and he's buried in my backyard!!
I'm not into writting a bunch of dribble and putting it out there on the
net for people that don't even know me. Chatting is a good tool to
use for that after the intitial introductions.

and as far as grammer, I shutter at the thought we have so called
professionals out there that can't even put together a simple
sentence!!!


Thanks for the clarity guys!

J

Well everyone covered what I would have said...WILL OUT

it did sound strange but did you consider that the grammar and the ways
the words were used was because english was not his first language.

I did wonder that, that's also why I wanted a second opinion.

god, now you have me second guessing again KB...

and I have to tell you - I also thought a lot about some things you said
in other topics. You have certainly changed my view on some things.

KB - you are a gentleman and a scholar!!

J

i sure as hell ain't a scholar but thank you anyway. that's the reason
why i offerd my opinion that you should talk to him but keep it limited
to this site for awhile. if he is a scammer chances are that he won't
answer back if you want to keep it to this site. sometimes they do but
not too often. i didn't mean to make things difficult but i like to
weigh all my options so i don't miss out on something. good luck with
whatever you do.

KB FOR P..WILL

KB, why is it you think he will not respond if I just kept it contact
limited to the site?

curious,

J

they usually don't want too much contact through the site because if
they get caught it's easier to get to them so they want to get you off
site to a less controlled area. he won't be restricted by the guidelines
of the site. he had to register to get on her and they have his info.
it's like luring someone away into the shadows. if you still have the
message and the guy gave you the address where he wants you to contact
him you can report him to the staff and he can be taken out of the
system until he gets a new address but you have to be sure that he is a
scammer first.

I'm going to send an email to him from the site and see if he responds,
just a hello and thanks for the interest sort of thing - see what
happens.

J

ain't nothin wrong with that, just be aware if he wants anything from
you.

good luck

hi,jane & rest,do you want me to write the e-mail i got from this guy of
my daughters,he sounds like your man,they are talking broken english,as
it is not their main language,its hard to beleive someone would write to
a women these things it was the first time i heard of him he only new
what my daguther told him of me as he knew i got this new apt,that was
scary,let me know i'll send it for all to see even give his e-mail
address,if wanthe never sent pic's of his self to her,but talked on
msn,im,well had vidio cam,yes he is very good looking allso,he told her
he had a new car for her showed her a pic.of it allso a 46ich,tv & xbox
for her girl,this guy is smoth,he knows it takes over a year to get
someone over there so whats the hurry with toys,so car will sit for a
year?it looked like pic.out off mag.never showed tv or xbox.let me know
you will love it,nenasmom,oh yea,he tryed to get her off the site allso
she got him on match.com,he thinks shes not on it no more but shes not
giving up her guys,he thinks she is though.

Just an update...this guy sent me more mail, unfortuanly I deleted
without reading it. But I did send him one to test your theory KB and
you were right...he has not responded nor has he even read it...

My vote is in - I say scammer/gamer.

J

I think there should be a place you can post all the scammers letters
and usernames so people can be informed, and or just have fun by sayibg
OMG what a moron or a creep. Stuff like that.

Hey even give a vote to the best scammer. LOL!

Still nothing...poor fella, must be heart broken I wouldn't talk to him
on yahoo!! (wink)

J

Oh my god, I must be naive...here's another letter like the last
one...from a different guy this time...are these scammers real people?
Or just drummed up by the dating sites?

Have a go at this one!!

"hi sweet angel"
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From: jigga722

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hi babe , my name is anderson michael from atlanta ,
georgia am geologist which is all about searching and
drilling soil for a place to get natural resources
like gold, petorleum product and other product inside
the soil.....am divorced and i have a kid staying
with me his name is larry...i love swimming ,
beaching ,camping,clubbing and alot of fun.my
favourite kind of foods are fried rice and chicken.
.i love playing soccer, basket ball... so since i was
divorced have been looking for some body who will
like to be my soulmate for the rest of my life . so
babe you might be the one god as sent to me so that we
can start the life , stay together , in the peace and
in the harmony babe ....so babe if you really want
me cos i really want you to be my wife ....but presently am outside the
state
for a contract due to the nature of my job......so you can contact me on
....
..............and_m_x@yahoo.com
........dan_will0832@hotmail.com