I know how that feels. It feels like a one night stand without the benefit of sex!!!

Although it upsets you, try to think of it as God looking out for you by weeding him out for you ahead of time, before it's too late!!!

I do hope for you that he's a good man and still calls and has a reason. I've noticed that sometimes people have such a nice, easy time with someone and it SCARES THEM!!!

Me either, it just ticked me off, that's all!

Oh, I've never thought of it that way!!

I'm in ...........

I got lots of lighters & matches, but we might have to go in together on the gasoline...Sh!t is expensive so he better call or we will be chanting......

the roof
the roof
the roof is on fire
we dont need no water
let the mother f*cker burn
burn baby burn

Hi sweetie, same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago. Went out to dinner with a guy I met on here and after date he never contacted me again. But on the same hand, I didn't contact him either, so I guess that means we weren't that interested in each other. More fish in the sea, don't let it bother you. That is why I put on my page, If you have a problem with people in wheelchairs, let's not waste each others time. I know it sounds *itchy, but what can I say, i'm direct and to the point and too old to waste my time with someone that has "hang ups". And men say they don't want a woman that "plays games", what he did to you sounds like a game to me, hmmmmm?

ha ha

we used to have water gun fights at my house .. my kids would be on the roof - the neighbors thought we were nuts.

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllll

Problem is, I called him, no answer! He should have at least let me know, right?

IF--

if he didn't like the date, how many people do you know have the guts to tell you that at the end of a date?

just keep that in mind

He told me he had a great time!

Lying is reeeeally prevalant these days, I wouldn't take his words for more than a grain of salt. Only trust the words of people that have proven you can trust, but even they will lie to you... eventually.

that's just the real world

Yeah, he shouldn't have given you hope that he would call. I wouldn't have called him. I think the guy should call after the date and if they don't they're a jerk and we're better off without them. Look at it that way, since he didn't call you after he said he would, he's just a jerk and you are much better off without him.

Just thought of something else redsox, If a man says he will call you and he doesn't, that means he isn't a man of his word. Do you really want someone in your life that isn't a man of his word? I don't. Cheer up sweetie

No, I don't!! I've already given up!! Thanx!

It has only been a couple of days and if he did tell you he was going to call the next day and didn't. Two questions come to mind
Did you sleep with him on Fri. nite?
Was he drunk when he made those statements.

Sorry just trying to get more of a picture in my head of the goings on on the date.

If the answer is yes to either of those questions the A.)he might not remember, B.) he probably won't call.
If the answer was NO to eithe of those questions then beats the hell out of me. I would probably listen to his explanation when he did or I would call him once to see what is up and thank him for the great date.

Wow Lighten up folks! Sounds like you went out on a nice date and who knows he might be seeing if he is going to have next weekend off to take you out again before he calls. Not everybody falls head over heels in one date or goes out every weekend. Dates cost real money. Maybe he has to take care of other things. Already had other things planned. For crying out loud he took you out on the holiday that should tell you something. If he didn't say I will call you Saturday I would take a chill pill. If you called once and left a message give it a rest and have fun in the mean time. You get all worked up you are going to not sound happy when he does call.

3 day rule or not,he didnt call you when he said he would,excuses or not..I would have no confidence in him, or his resolve, to make good on a word of something so simple

Consider yourself lucky. Dating leads to regular dating which leads to relationships. And, that's nothing but problems.

Maybe he has some sort of "finger" flu....ya know, where his fingers are sick and achy, and they just can't dial your number? Plus, you don't want him using his tongue, cause then he could get "tongue" flu.....it's an epidemic.

Wow! A little jaded, are we? Did it ever cross your mind that he might be....oh, I dunno....BUSY??? Maybe like a job, or family matters, or personal business or something? For cryin' out loud, the guy was living before Friday night, don't you think he might just be continuing to do so? Give the guy a little space, wouldya! Don't start smothering him right away. Wait until the claws sink in a little further, and it's too late for him to realize he screwed up, so all he has to do is wait for you to unhinge your jaw and swallow him whole.

When women have attitudes like this, is it any wonder why some men won't call?