Integrity & empathy.

There are a bunch on here and in real life claiming to be nice guys...just wondering why they thought they were and why they can't get the woman as a nice guy

I was the only one the posted in your thread,i was playing with the op get a grip

Here was the list sent to me of what a nice guy is

♥ To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
♥ To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful"
♥ To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
♥ To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
♥ To every guy who has given her flowers just because thats how he rolls.
♥ To every guy that said he would die for her.
♥ To every guy that really would.
♥ To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
♥ To every guy that cried in front of her.
♥ To every guy that she cried in front of.
♥ To every guy that holds hands with her.
♥ To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
♥ To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
♥ To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
♥ To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
♥ To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
♥ To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
♥ To every guy that would give his seat up...
♥ To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
♥ To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
♥ To every guy who told his secrets to her.
♥ To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
♥ To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
♥ To every guy that believed in her dreams.
♥ To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
♥ To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
♥ To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
♥ To every guy that gave his heart.
♥ To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.


Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...

Yes, unfortunately there are a lot of "bad" girls out there as well, but as the "nice" guys don't like being stereo-typed, or taken for granted/pushed aside....neither do the girls. I personally don't like the "bad" boys, they tend to be shallow, among other things, though there are exceptions. I want the long term, meaninful actions and words, not the short term "fun".

you are telling the truth

Can a guy be a nice guy and still be a bad boy...when it counts???

We need a moratorium on "Nice Guy" threads. Last year it was "BBW" and now it seems to be the nice guy thing.

Can anyone define what a "nice guy" is? I'm polite and respectful, by choice, but it's not like I haven't the option of straightening someone's ass out. Maybe "nice guy" is a French thing. Maybe it's nice gee - that's with a hard G.

yes he can

yes, knowing how to paly is important

no worries i took back the only comment in your thread

I like a nice guy.

Yes, if he has the "nice" character instilled deeper than the "bad". Everybody likes the fun and exciting people and things, but that only goes so far, if you don't have the substance to back it up, then you're just going to keep coming up empty.

thats fine with me

Amen! That's how I try to roll!
I'm proud to be a gentleman - and happy to let the woman set the pace for the physical stuff.
I like to please her, since I can always get myself off... so no hurry.
But isn't it nice when she just can't seem to help herself? Isn't it "being nice" to give her what she wants, and strive for more than she was expecting?

nice guys are rejects from women who are not interested in them.i have no idea what i mean by this but it looks good to me

Of course - wouldn't every woman already know that's basically how I'd expect EVERY "nice guy" to think?

Just makes me MORE puzzled on this whole "bad boy" thing...

Nice guys are for the most part the ones that get s**t on by the not so nice girls that give the rest of us a bad name.

i think women want to hear more like he is a great guy or a great man, maybe even an RKISIT

I think there are a few women on here that say this or that, and flirt around
cuz it's reletively safe here
but if you were to meet them in persone
and call them out on it, it would be a whole different story.