I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good...
It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to.
Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hot or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting.
So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires.
Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them.
Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them.
In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freakin little boys. Not every woman on Mingle is on here to get laid!!! They want a friend, and understanding friend that will respect them.

gee, i thought this was gonna be a joke or funny story

I want skinny plain Jane, and she is not into marriage blather until after we spend months finding out if we are right together.

Looking for her here? That's why I buy a case of Snickers. It's going to be a while.

Man am I ever in the wrong thead..............

Well I'll give you that I'm not into "overweight", but I'm not into a barbie-doll type one bit. I like a girl who's intelligent, first and foremost - and if they can balance their lives by not only being booksmart but actually practicing "wellness" that has them in shape - THAT is my dream girl.

Physically, she could have no boobs at all (not that boobs aren't nice ), wear glasses, hate makeup, have a funny haircut, and need an appointment on that show "what not to wear" - and I'd be 100% as excited to take her out.

Healthy and natural is sexy to me... "playboy bunny" is honestly a bit of a turn-off to me - I expect that kind of girl to be really shallow. Especially fake boobs - yuck.
Of course, maybe its' a little shallow to presume that, too...

Wow...this is every woman's dream thread. Glad to hear there are still some down to earth guys out there.

(its a I am a Nice Guy Thead in disguise)