You can work until you drop in your tracks and she will be collecting widow benifits but you won't have your marriage back.

Seperated means you have boundries and she doesn't get to text you at will if you don't want it.

My definition of seperated isn't married living in two seperate houses. Seperated means that you are putting the marriage contract on hold. Seperated is meeting at distinctive regular times to be recieveing counseling and exchangeing necessary information but it isn't constant access. As a single parent I can tell you don't even have to have untettered access. That is the real cost of divorce and hopefully that is what seperation can at least give you both a taste of.

we shall see.

Welcome aboard, get yourself known, and find what you find.

im working on getting to be known so far so good ive had a lot of people email or view me and i talk a bunch i n the forums