So what did you learn from all this?

Was this on 90210?

Add it up. Mix friendship up by crossing the line into relationship territory. Throw another man she's with off in the mix. That's a volatile cocktail that exploded in your face. Next rodeo try to find a single woman, one that's stable to boot, then realize the difference between friendship and a relationship. Once you cross into the no man's land of relationship then there's generally no turning back. Sometimes it's best to keep a female a friend unless you are looking for a world of hurt. Then again she could become your wife and ball and chain. Do you deserve that?! lol

thanks all i will keep all this in mind since to my surprice she pop up back at work today, so again im stress out but ill try to keep my distance.