I recently received an email from the wife of someone who had been emailing me a while back. There's nothing you can do as far as letting people know he's there, right? Just curious.

he's there? where?

I mean here on the site pretending to be separated.

what do you mean by letting people know he`s there ?

I've been made aware of someone who is married as well although I had no personal interest in this person someone else I know did and thats just wrong that people play others like that

how do you know for sure he isn`t,..maybe it`s her ?

deception

I had no interest in him either. I was just wondering. I guess it's like the other thread Lily posted on letting people know about the guy who was a sex offender. You can't do it in the forums. I wouldn't have anyway since I really don't know, it just made me wonder about it.

I've come across one also and wondered what to do, but I left it alone, thinking it wasn't my place to "out" him. Another reason why being careful applies. If married people want to be on sites, whatever, as long as BOTH know..then it's their business, but one using it to "cheat"..IMO that's different, it's wrong and people get hurt.

Best thing to do is ignore him, block him or report him.

Gives us guys a bad rap doesn't it......

Bad Mojo.
Leave that stuff alone.

Did you mean "sex on fender"?

There's nothing you can do about a cheater but to stay away. Don't bother making it your buisness to save other women. Don't put yourself through it. I speak from the standpoint of having married a cheater. Lot's of women don't care that a man is married, they have no moral's.

If he sticks around here, he will be soon.

Yeah, I don't really think it's my place either. But it definitely had me wondering. I knew there was something hinky about him from day one. But, didn't know what it was. Oh, well. Just a friendly reminder to be very careful in the online dating world.

hehe MM. and should be if that's what he wants! or even if he doesn't. and I'm not trying to be gender specific...goes for both!

I got a phone call not too long ago from the fiance of someone on here. That was interesting..

Well, his wife knows now. However, from the email she sent it didn't sound like this was new behavior for him.

The only thing you can do is warn those you know through e-mails only. As far as reporting him well there is nothing the site can do.

That is why it is very important to find out as much about a person that you can. Do not ignore the Red Flags and ask questions.

The ones that are lying normaly get caught they always seem to stumble and forget what they have said previous.

Even though it is wrong all one can do is block them and warn their friends through e-mail. Such issues are not allowed on the Forums for they will be deleted.