always find myself liking the guys i cant have...

GO ASK YOUR MOTHER AND REPORT TO ME IN THE MORNING@!!!

I always want the women I can't have.

I'm so picky that the woman closest to me that I'd date is 500 miles away from me.

If you're anything like me, it's because your expectations are so high that there is nobody else that you even want to consider because you think you've found the perfect person, who just so happens to be unavailable.

you answered it....you cant have them.....therefore you want them....

you cant have me.......(is it working?)

not too shabby for your first post.

i dunno...he just needs to live closer...

...i cant :(

i think your power must be out...because its not working...

Ok.......maybe you pick these people "subconsciously" knowing you cant have them because you are afraid of committment????

orrrrrrrrrrrrr maybe you pick the people you know you cant have because you dont feel you deserve better?????


this of course is complete psycho babble mixed with crack of bikers azzzzzzzzz!!!

here I am...LOL

Thanks. It's kinda the reason I'm here, though. :-)

You have to ask yourself if you can do the long-distance thing. It takes a lot of time talking on the phone, and a lot of dedication to eachother. If you're up for it, then you should definitely talk to him about it.

But the biggest thing is that if he's not up for it, then you have to move on. Dwelling on this person will probably cause you to miss another amazing person. Believe it or not, there is more than one amazing guy out there ;-) They're just rare, so you have to keep your eyes pilled.

*swing and a miss*

maybe you just got to that person too late......then that wouldnt make them the perfect person now would it? isnt one requirement of the perfect one to be single too?

No, because if they were single then one would focus on their faults because they could potentially deal with those faults.

But if they're taken then one tends to focus on the amazing qualities and make them apear to be perfect. Because most people would rather dwell on how that could be their significant other rather than move on to somebody else.

then once you had her you would fail to see her as perfect? do i understand your logic?

No, because I would never get her. That's the point of wanting what you can't have, you can't have it.

see:my first post.

best of luck, my dog only lasted an hour chasing his own tail

You can't have me.

That's one to cross of the list.

Merry Christmas!!

Did you try to email me? It didn't go through, but I have a message in my little dink-a-dink box that says you messaged me...but I never recieved the message.

I don't know, there must be some weird, contrarian, self-sabotaging thing going on in there. "Forbidden fruit is the sweetest" or something, which is OK if you're lusting after a strawberry.

I always find myself liking the ones who can't detect my existence. That's no bed of strawberries, either....

A bed of strawberries would be messy, to say the least.