I am not here because I do not have love - to the contrary-
I find it everywhere. I feel love because of my openness to it-
not because it is seeking me. Love is seeking its ideal;
that is love is seeking a soul that wants to be loved.
This is different from what most might consider to be
the purpose here- at first glance you might think that
every profile contains what its owner might consider to be
its ideal love situation- listing likes and dislikes as
though the human psyche can fit itself into a bunch of
common traits- I beg to differ that you will never know,
untill experience what magic may be buried under what
we feel may be some unacceptable facade- nothing is
ever what it seems, and I venture to say that what
we seek will almost never appear in the form we expect.
Compatibility cannot be determined by occupation,
or religion, of choice of recreation, or political
affiliation- most of these things dont amount to a
hill of beans when it comes to what helps us feel
whole. I continually seek a soul that is ready to be
loved. For those that seek perfection, or for that
matter anything close- forget about it. You'd do best
to stay as you are.
On your own.

very good ...Sounds like the beginning of " Love Actually"

Exactly... every inferno begins with a spark.
Can't get to the flame without it. No matter how hard we try.

Wow, that was deep!

might say Im beginning to do the math. About what makes us happy at the end of the day, and how we are in denial about it. or unwilling to see- or both.
Thank you...

very nicely put...

thanks for sharing with us.

Isnt it amazing the clarity that comes from angst?
Thank you for your thank you.

well said thoughtful & very true.....

you're welcome...

Getting to the understanding part of it has been a very solitary path.
Still is.
I honestly seek to love more than be loved.
Thats the hit.

I think many are too 'afraid' of the solitary moments instead of embracing them and learning from them.

In my experience, love is never something that can really be 'found', it's felt, and usually when you least expect it to happen.

I do like how you think.