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 you too :) But when you said only Betty has replied to you I know others have and I have. But at times we get into ourselves. Hope you having a good day. And smiling :)
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We you too :) But when you said only Betty has replied to you I know others have and I have. But at times we get into ourselves. Hope you having a good day. And smiling :)
Yes you have a long time ago. I remember meeting you. I meant in the last month. It's ok |
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Jump into Topicless and have fun with us that will perk you up a little :)
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Hello,
I wish you a happy day tomorrow. One full of good memories! Indulge! Have some ice cream or whatever you love! |
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((((((((((BETTY)))))))))
My love, thoughts and prayers will be with you! The 22nd would of been my 38th anniversary....My heart is with you! Mary
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((((((((((BETTY))))))))) My love, thoughts and prayers will be with you! The 22nd would of been my 38th anniversary....My heart is with you! Mary
Thank you Mary 
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(((((Betty))))), just got this read, my thoughts go out to you.
Kiteman, just hang in there & post. People will reply & you will gain friends. Many of us post in "waves" as our schedules allow. Sometimes I an able to post alot & others I post very litle. You just jump in to a conversation & say what you think. We are a very diverse group & if you are posting, people will reply. Hang in there & keep trying, it will happen. |
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Thanks Don
I know you know 
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I see whenever I say how I feel no one replies or cares. I have known Betty for a while and she is the only friend I have made through Mingle 2. I care about people and I feel bad for all who have lost a loved one. ((((Dave)))
Don't fell that way hon. We all care on here and we have all been through the devastion of losing a loved one. Just because someone didn't reply does not mean we don't care , we all do very much and we are all so sorry for each others losses and pain.
It's not just this group. I know I am not alone in losing someone. You are the only one who cares and says so. Still no one in this forum even acknowledges me, accept you. I have said welcome to Teresa and no reply I'm sorry I haven't replyed, I have had my own set of other problems with greiving, and just find it easier to talk to a woman who has lost a spouse than a man. We have some of the same issues, but oh so many different ones. I know a man who lost his wife and three months later was calling all the widows he knew and telling them he was looking for a wife. He found one within about a month and they are still married today, it's been 1 1/2 years for them. Again, I'm sorry you felt I was avoiding you. |
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I am also new to the site and have been not only trying to figure out when but really want to make sure my Kookie's things get put to good use. She was a very good dresser with mostly business clothes and would like to see them go to help other women get ahead. If you know of any agencies in MI that will take extremely good clothes and give them to someone in need. Larry
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I am also new to the site and have been not only trying to figure out when but really want to make sure my Kookie's things get put to good use. She was a very good dresser with mostly business clothes and would like to see them go to help other women get ahead. If you know of any agencies in MI that will take extremely good clothes and give them to someone in need. Larry My sister was also a very good dresser and had very expensive things. Her request was that her clothing went to the Battered Womans Shelter. Her reason for this was that so many women have to leave with nothing but a nightgown on their backs. She figured they have gone through so much and was hoping some nice things would bring some joy into their lives. Also if they were to go on job interviews she was hoping that it would help as well. I hope this helps you out a bit. Good luck and I am truly sorry for your loss.
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Fri 05/15/09 06:11 PM
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I am also new to the site and have been not only trying to figure out when but really want to make sure my Kookie's things get put to good use. She was a very good dresser with mostly business clothes and would like to see them go to help other women get ahead. If you know of any agencies in MI that will take extremely good clothes and give them to someone in need. Larry Welcome to the site Larry! I know there are places that help women get back into the work force after leaving abusive situations, but don't know the exact name. They would love to receive the clothing and you are so wonderful to try and make other women's lives better. God Bless ya! Mary |
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Hi Dave I am still a newbie so I am still learning the ropes around here. At first I felt that my posts got quickly overlooked but I know now that is not the case. I am sure there are some strong companionships that have formed over time. Someday we will be in with them, but I do they read our posts and they care and they certainly make us feel wellcome. Teresa, I was at one of the hosp. my husband was in and the dr. looked at me and pulled me aside and got me set up at the clinic. I was dehydrated, low on all vitamins, had to give myself B12 shots, and was very depressed and run down. I have spent the the last few months trying to rest and get healthy. People tell me I look better but I still feel exhausted most of the time. I notice my verbage is different since the accident, everything I refer to is before the accident, after the accident, and after Rick died. They all say it gets better with time so I am praying that it does. On myspace I have made it where I can go there and listen to "our songs" look at "our Pictures" and cry when I have to. Again thank you all for letting me just write. Bless you all. thanks sweetcheeks, i'll ask about a b-12 shot next appt. i've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, no cure, just treatment for my symptoms. if i didn't have something to make me sleep at night, i'd go for days without any sleep. believe me i've done it, sometimes for weeks, a body just can't handle going without sleep. when you lay down at night and your mind doesn't shut off, just keep on rewinding everything said, done and events happening over and over and over. I got a really good blessing last night at church. GOD is good. HE still answers prayers. in fact answered one friday while i was praying. i'll remember you when i pray, what is your first name? |
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Teresa this is so weird but I just went to the dr about the fibrolyalgais thing, right now they arent taking it to serious because they think I am still trying to recoup from the past 2 years. I am getting my strength back and getting back to the old me again. Well I should say the new me the old me will never be again. Today would have been my 4th wedding anniversay but I am taking it much better that I thought I would, this group is great because we can be so open about the way we really feel.
To all of you thank you for letting me in and thank you for giving me a place to talk about him and my feelings about the accident, and for not judging, just listening. You are all great people and I wish us all the best and hope we all find whatever it is that makes us happy again. Sweetcheeks aka: Kandy :smile |
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Teresa this is so weird but I just went to the dr about the fibrolyalgais thing, right now they arent taking it to serious because they think I am still trying to recoup from the past 2 years. I am getting my strength back and getting back to the old me again. Well I should say the new me the old me will never be again. Today would have been my 4th wedding anniversay but I am taking it much better that I thought I would, this group is great because we can be so open about the way we really feel. To all of you thank you for letting me in and thank you for giving me a place to talk about him and my feelings about the accident, and for not judging, just listening. You are all great people and I wish us all the best and hope we all find whatever it is that makes us happy again. Sweetcheeks aka: Kandy :smile I'll be sure and say a prayer for you. I have spent the most of my day  . I am the kind of person who needs someone in my life. Married at 16 and for almost 29 years. I've never been without the love of a man. I miss holding hands and arms wrapped around me. A big and no one to share that kind of love with is breaking. My kids don't think I need a man in my life, but they have someone. Hope they never have to experience it like I have. I am encouraged that tomorrow will be better, if i have to go out and pushmow another 5 acres to get the frustration out, then i will. I hope you find your happiness again too.
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HELLO GUYS HOPE ALL IS WELL.
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Where have you been hiding??
Got hooked up with some "star" down there??    
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Where have you been hiding?? Got hooked up with some "star" down there??
no just been busy hope all is well |
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HELLO GUYS HOPE ALL IS WELL.
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I see whenever I say how I feel no one replies or cares. I have known Betty for a while and she is the only friend I have made through Mingle 2. I care about people and I feel bad for all who have lost a loved one. ((((Dave)))
Don't fell that way hon. We all care on here and we have all been through the devastion of losing a loved one. Just because someone didn't reply does not mean we don't care , we all do very much and we are all so sorry for each others losses and pain.
It's not just this group. I know I am not alone in losing someone. You are the only one who cares and says so. Still no one in this forum even acknowledges me, accept you. I have said welcome to Teresa and no reply I'm sorry I haven't replyed, I have had my own set of other problems with greiving, and just find it easier to talk to a woman who has lost a spouse than a man. We have some of the same issues, but oh so many different ones. I know a man who lost his wife and three months later was calling all the widows he knew and telling them he was looking for a wife. He found one within about a month and they are still married today, it's been 1 1/2 years for them. Again, I'm sorry you felt I was avoiding you. Teresa, thank you for your reply. I have lost every one I ever loved and I feel the lost every day. I was feeling alone when I said you did not reply |
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