Topic: Parents
Jill298's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:01 AM
OK... maybe MY idea of being a parent is different than others. One of my employees just told her mom she's pregnant. Keep in mind this is a 23 year old GROWN WOMAN. Keeps a job, pays her bills. She moved in with her mom to help her mom awhile ago. So when she told her mom she is pregnant, her mom called her a piece of sh!t tramp and told her to get her dog and get the fk out of her house. (HER house that is under foreclosure because she doesn't pay her bills and is financially stupid) Not that she couldn't pay her bills, she just simply didn't. I can't think of any situation that I would look my daughter in the face, call her a piece of sh!t tramp and throw her and my soon to be grandbaby out on the streets.

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Wed 10/22/08 10:03 AM
Yeah, I can't either. I swear, you should have to have a license to have kids

Ted14621's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:06 AM
Edited by Ted14621 on Wed 10/22/08 10:07 AM

OK... maybe MY idea of being a parent is different than others. One of my employees just told her mom she's pregnant. Keep in mind this is a 23 year old GROWN WOMAN. Keeps a job, pays her bills. She moved in with her mom to help her mom awhile ago. So when she told her mom she is pregnant, her mom called her a piece of sh!t tramp and told her to get her dog and get the fk out of her house. (HER house that is under foreclosure because she doesn't pay her bills and is financially stupid) Not that she couldn't pay her bills, she just simply didn't. I can't think of any situation that I would look my daughter in the face, call her a piece of sh!t tramp and throw her and my soon to be grandbaby out on the streets.

It makes me think "a thief always thinks someone is stealing from them"
Her Mother had a baby. I wonder what she thinks about herself?

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Wed 10/22/08 10:08 AM
i wouldn't even call someone i didn't LIKE a piece of sh1t tramp!


Jill298's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:09 AM
Edited by Jill298 on Wed 10/22/08 10:09 AM
I think her mother is jealous to be honest. She's jealous because her daughter is moving on with her life. She's not young anymore. She's going to be "alone" now. She has to take care of herself.

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Wed 10/22/08 10:09 AM
Wow....and if I were the daughter...I would do it NOW...let her Mom take care of her own finances and lose her house....and no...don't take her in when it happens....I have problems with my kids too...but they are my kids no matter the age....I would be the first to start buying baby things and planning showers...omg...that is just horrible:cry: :cry: :cry:

lilith401's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:12 AM
We are lucky, Jill.

Jill298's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:13 AM
She was so upset. I told her I understand she's upset. She has every right to be angry and sad and everything in between. This is her mother and she needs her mother right now. However, she CAN'T be this upset while she's pregnant. I sent her to her best friend's house. Told her to get some funny movies and try to chill out and calm down as much as she can.

Ted14621's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:13 AM
My Daugther had a Baby! I love 'em both to pieces.
<---Makenzie

Jill298's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:13 AM

We are lucky, Jill.
Yes, very lucky.

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Wed 10/22/08 10:17 AM
i can't wait until i am a grandparent....(not too soon).....but then i will have an excuse to be crusty and cantankerous.....

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:20 AM
sad situation when your own parent runs you down and just isn't there for you

Ted14621's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:25 AM

sad situation when your own parent runs you down and just isn't there for you

Sure makes you stronger though. My parents abandoned me at 14. I'm stronger for it. I don't have to rely on anyone AND for that reason, I would never abandon my kids (34,31,27)

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:29 AM
Sorry to say but if that happen to me I would wipe my hands clean turn my back walk out to never to return. Some day down the road when she is all alone and not allowed to see her own grandchild maybe she will think about what she said.

I would never turn my back matter of fact when my son's g/f at the time told me she was pregnant I just sat there and said well you know how it happen now you both need to decide what you are going to do. I will back you no matter what you both decide.

They lived with me during that time and after the baby was born. They ended up gettting married and divorced but that was their choice.

I now have a Beautiful 5 year old grand daughter that is my heart!:heart:

Jill298's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:34 AM

Sorry to say but if that happen to me I would wipe my hands clean turn my back walk out to never to return. Some day down the road when she is all alone and not allowed to see her own grandchild maybe she will think about what she said.

I would never turn my back matter of fact when my son's g/f at the time told me she was pregnant I just sat there and said well you know how it happen now you both need to decide what you are going to do. I will back you no matter what you both decide.

They lived with me during that time and after the baby was born. They ended up gettting married and divorced but that was their choice.

I now have a Beautiful 5 year old grand daughter that is my heart!:heart:
congrats flowerforyou

CoffeeSonata's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:42 AM

OK... maybe MY idea of being a parent is different than others. One of my employees just told her mom she's pregnant. Keep in mind this is a 23 year old GROWN WOMAN. Keeps a job, pays her bills. She moved in with her mom to help her mom awhile ago. So when she told her mom she is pregnant, her mom called her a piece of sh!t tramp and told her to get her dog and get the fk out of her house. (HER house that is under foreclosure because she doesn't pay her bills and is financially stupid) Not that she couldn't pay her bills, she just simply didn't. I can't think of any situation that I would look my daughter in the face, call her a piece of sh!t tramp and throw her and my soon to be grandbaby out on the streets.


Yeah that was pretty low...

IMAGR81's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:42 AM
Not many know this but my daughter is 16 and she is pregnant. When I found out I was in shock but I just said that she needs to make some decisions. We found out when she was 20 weeks so it was to keep it or give it up for adoption. I told her I would support her either way. I am glad that I did because with possibly this could be her only pregency that she may have due to issues we found out after we found out she was pregant. Not once did I call her a piece of sh** Tramp. I didnt even think that!!! I am here for her every day because she is on complete bed rest.

I dont know, its just the parent in me, but I would never ever turn my back on my kids for something like this.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:49 AM

Not many know this but my daughter is 16 and she is pregnant. When I found out I was in shock but I just said that she needs to make some decisions. We found out when she was 20 weeks so it was to keep it or give it up for adoption. I told her I would support her either way. I am glad that I did because with possibly this could be her only pregency that she may have due to issues we found out after we found out she was pregant. Not once did I call her a piece of sh** Tramp. I didnt even think that!!! I am here for her every day because she is on complete bed rest.

I dont know, its just the parent in me, but I would never ever turn my back on my kids for something like this.


Kuddos to you I feel ya I was already a singel parent raising my own two kids. When I found out she was pregnant well she moved in with me for her parents did not help. I made sure she had lunch money ect.. Its tough but would have been tougher if she had choose to abort or give the baby up.

Just to know Kaitlynn(my heart) is to love her. Like the other day she called me and said ganny you have to come down here to see me. I asked her why what is going on she said I just want you to come see me and let me give you some loving!!blushing Ya know damn well my happy ass went to go see hersmooched

dia_licious's photo
Wed 10/22/08 10:58 AM
oh wow! i got knocked up when i was 18 and MY mom was super pumped! she wouldnt leave me the hell alone for like two seconds! lol she bought pretty much the whole nursery before we even knew what i was having...

thats really sh!tty for your friend though, i could just imagine how shes feeling with all her hormones raging...hope things work out :)