Topic: getting married
Californication's photo
Tue 10/21/08 11:53 PM


The fascination with marriage has eluded me for quite some time. I understand it represents a deeper commitment, but only in a financial sense. Marriage, as far as I can tell, kills relationships. I once told a girl I'd marry her, and I see now that it's almost an insult. Love can't be defined by a piece of paper, and most definitely shouldn't be represented by one.
so not true,it's a piece of paper that gives the women the man's last name and whatever material possessions you have before the marraige is untouchable by the wife.Who will take care of you when you are sick or old.Who will cheer you up when you are down?Who will be there for you when you take your last breath?Who will cry for you when you are gone?Who will give you your last kiss?If you are lucky it will be the love of your lifelove love love love love love


I don't think that I won't get married.

I just believe that if I do, it will be for financial reasons on both of our parts.

Love is love, with or without some stupid piece of paper.

When I fall in love, I hope the person knows me enough to know that marriage changes nothing about my love, for better or worse. Nor does it mean anything apart from me giving her access to legal venues to act on my behalf should anything happen to me.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 10/21/08 11:56 PM
I know that when I think of love money doesn't factor in,I do know that money can be a factor in a relationship it just isn't my motive

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 10/21/08 11:58 PM
money, was the factor on both my ex's !

i had money and they wanted it all !tears

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:00 AM

money, was the factor on both my ex's !

i had money and they wanted it all !tears
Well, you're lucky!!! At least you had money! I didn't have sh!t and they still wanted it all!!!slaphead

catwoman96's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:00 AM
Edited by catwoman96 on Wed 10/22/08 12:03 AM
flowers flowers flowers flowers

i wanna get married in the mountains

chevylover1965's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:02 AM
oh, they got it all and all my stuff too !tears
and im still paying !frustrated

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:07 AM

oh, they got it all and all my stuff too !tears
and im still paying !frustrated
Mine didn't get sh!t but an I.O.U.! Nah, many women have dated me for money and sex, but few have dated me for what really matters. And to no evail, they couldn't even keep up! So they got away with money and sex too!!!slaphead

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:20 AM


tina...u makin me wanna tears tears tears
i dont like living alone
i hate it
im tired of being effin "independent"
Yeah, for crying out loud, I want a significant other to beat my @ss and tell me what to do!!!tears
K I'll be right there!

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:21 AM



tina...u makin me wanna tears tears tears
i dont like living alone
i hate it
im tired of being effin "independent"
Yeah, for crying out loud, I want a significant other to beat my @ss and tell me what to do!!!tears
K I'll be right there!
A love love love love match!!!!!!!!!!!

scoundrel's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:23 AM
I am just so freaking abnormal.

Love hits me right between the eyes.

From Minute One, when I know that it is happening, I am lost. Fearless, daring, constant and unbending, I am as powerless as a drone bee homing towards his hive. Many tried to dissuade me, event to block and prevent me, but none can succeed against the irresistable overwhelming power of certain love.

But it has been so very long ago.
So very long. Even the shadow of loving halts my world in a heartbeat.

Weird me.

catwoman96's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:26 AM
so many people dont wanna take another chance.

me.....i got one more chance in me.

WAITING for the right man who i owuld do anything forlove love love love love love love
and then he gets all of me. and he gonna be a happy man!!!love love love love

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:28 AM
you may only find love once in this life........ give it all you havelove love love love

catwoman96's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:30 AM
Edited by catwoman96 on Wed 10/22/08 12:32 AM
always a bridesmaid...



wanna wear a white dress for a sexy man

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:31 AM

borrow some guts..follow ur heart..
get ur azzzzz up here girl


we will help push eachother in the RIGHT direction
scared scared scared spock scared scared scared

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:33 AM
We crazy Brookelove love love love love love love love love love love love

MicheleNC's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:34 AM

Soon as my transfer goes thru


Do I need to break out the butt bow dress?

As for me, I just don't know. Divorce is a beeyotch.

catwoman96's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:34 AM
naw we young and smart

catwoman96's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:38 AM
dont settle for less than true :heart:

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:39 AM

I still need to find a girl before I can do married thing. Would be kinda creapy on the first date to pop the question. That is if I can even get a date... Damn this is depressing HA! Yeah I need to get away from you people and this forum. Everyones starting to rub off on me! frustrated slaphead Sorry flowerforyou

All I know is my late husband danced with me twice at a birthday party and told his friend that he had met the girl he was going to marry when he went back to his battlion office; and he did 100 days later. It was fantastic!

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/22/08 12:40 AM
love love love is something you work on and don't walk away fromlove love love