It's never easy finding someone with whom you connect with. Especially when you have the feeling that you like your life, but you know it could be tons better if you had someone special their to share it with.

Love is a mysterious fig. It can make you so damn happy, and it can rip your heart out. But we all want it. We all want to find someone to share life with, to be with at night to cuddle on the couch, to do silly things with that makes us feel like a kid again. We just want it so bad that we look so hard for it. And that is the irony of it. We want it, so we go in search of it, only most of the time we never find it. It's when we least expect it that love comes walking in. You don't recognize it at first, but eventually you see it.

You have a situation where you are a single dad. You want someone to take you and your child for and complete you. Not an easy thing to do, but the trick is that you can't project how bad you want to find someone. Alot of times, when you do this, you end up falling for someone for the wrong reasons. I don't know the answers man, but I do know this. Not every woman can make you happy, but their is one out there that will make you a "goofy mess" (that's a good thing too). She will come in and not compete with you child. She will come in and the both of you will work to make a family. Maybe you will meet a single mother. Maybe not. Who knows? But the point is that their is someone out their for you.

Date awhile, meet some ladies from here, take it slow. And don't meet a woman and go "She could be the one". Just enjoy the ride my friend. I don't know how long it will take, but it will be worth it.