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Topic: Cheating
SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 12:28 AM
Why do people lie and cheat???

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 10/15/08 12:31 AM
I dont know......

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 12:36 AM
It really SUCKS especially when they deny it even though you have proof.

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Wed 10/15/08 12:38 AM
I can't quite figure it out. I do know though it comes back to bite them in the butt....if that brings you any comfort

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 10/15/08 12:43 AM
Are you still with this person???

bigsullivan54 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 459	Wed 10/15/08 12:46 AM
i cheated once... and i was so sick to my stomach i told on myself the next day i dont know how anyone can do it and be fine with it i was just a moron who let a arguement turn into binge drinking and letting some skank talk me into some sex... its the biggest mistake ive ever made

CoffeeSonata Joined Sat 10/04/08 Posts: 4054	Wed 10/15/08 12:48 AM
I think they lie & cheat because they arent at all comfortable nor confident in who they are & the only way they can make up for that in their own mind is to manipulate & control the other person. If they lie & you donnt find out then they feel theyve won that round of their game. Same wwith cheating. They figure theyr entitled to it. Ivebeen cheated on before in the worst way & this is all i know to try & make sense of it. Its wrong tho & more than hurtful to the person BeINg cheated on.

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 12:59 AM
Are you still with this person??? I just found out today, but already have a lead on a new place to live! Even though I moved several hundred miles to be with her.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 10/15/08 01:02 AM
awwwwwwwwwwwwwww ((((((Sharon)))))) Just know that if she will cheat on you she will cheat on others.......its not you its her!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 10/15/08 01:03 AM
Its sad when you cant even trust the person you love.......

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 01:14 AM
awwwwwwwwwwwwwww ((((((Sharon)))))) Just know that if she will cheat on you she will cheat on others.......its not you its her!! Yep, what's funny is the guy she cheated with is the one who told me, but is telling her he didn't. So she's ending up with a liar as well.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 10/15/08 02:00 AM
((((Sharon))) I don't know what to say sweetie If you need an ear, I'm here for you

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 02:06 AM
((((Sharon))) I don't know what to say sweetie If you need an ear, I'm here for you Thank you Suz. I am still in shock!

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 10/15/08 02:10 AM
I can imagine! I don't know her well but I don't know, it just seems out of character. Are you sure you can trust the guy who told you? That he's not the one lying in order to just cause a problem?

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 02:12 AM
I can imagine! I don't know her well but I don't know, it just seems out of character. Are you sure you can trust the guy who told you? That he's not the one lying in order to just cause a problem? He sent me copies of her emails with her name on it. Plus she has been calling him everyday and talking for hours, texting all day long, acting secretive, and tells me I am just imagining things. The wording in the e-mails tells me it's her.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 10/15/08 02:18 AM
Awwww crap

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Wed 10/15/08 02:22 AM
I shouldn't talk about it on here, don't really like to talk about other people, but i just can't sleep and don't know what else to do.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 10/15/08 02:24 AM
You have mail

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Wed 10/15/08 03:15 AM
Why do people lie and cheat??? lots of people out there that dont know what they want in a relationship, therefore thats why everyone is more single than not..sad, but true..and the ones that r not single, cheat, cause they dont know what the HELL they want

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 10/15/08 03:34 AM
welcome...to the human race