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Edited by
lcjw
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Sun 10/12/08 07:36 AM
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I don't think children have anything to do with this break up. If the 2 of you spent so much time together and talked a lot, as you said, he should have known that you did not want anymore children, or at least, got the idea, if you were honest with him about, that u did not want children anymore. Usually that is one of the subjects that people over 40, that begin dating discuss upfront. I think he used that as an excuse and he definately took the cowardly way out. Apparently it did come up rather quickly. They've only been dating a few weeks. I don't know too many people who whip out a list of requirements sooner than that. Most of the time, If you are over 40, then you know what you want out of a relationship; if you don't good luck to you. Anyway, children are one the THE MOST important issues in a relationship, and usually would come up EARLY in the conversation, casually some times, but 9 out of 10 times both people have an idea where they are standing concerning this matter. Once again, if you are over 40, and don't have any idea on where you stand on this issue, you have no business being in a relationship. |
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Actually I wouldn't mind a text break up. I mean, if they are breaking up with you there's not much to talk about. What is awful is when there is just silence and you have no idea whether you're being broken up with. Seriously? A text message break up? At the very least, he should have called. |
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You know what? I got so mad, i asked my god Confucius to curse him with Doms and female children for the rest of his life
He's phucked now... |
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Actually I wouldn't mind a text break up. I mean, if they are breaking up with you there's not much to talk about. What is awful is when there is just silence and you have no idea whether you're being broken up with. Seriously? A text message break up? At the very least, he should have called. I know. I'm strange. but, at least I'm open about it. 
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He is a coward; did not have the courage to face her and tell her the real reason for the break up.
He took the easy way out and used a bogus reason for the termination of the relationship. |
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Edited by
Mentork
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Sun 10/12/08 07:46 AM
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Confucius got back to me, he said he couldn't come though with the dom thing ('cause they are hard to find). But it's easy for him to do the "all children one gender" curse. and that he had done it to him before i even asked
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