Topic: Self destructive
seahawks's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:01 PM


Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


I'm not sure it has anything to do with the sense of being *alone again*, unless you are a miserable person by yourself in all situations. If that's the case, then seek therapy.

I think it hurts so much because you loved, and lost. Loss hurts and sucks. Simple as that.

Grieve, cry, mourn, and move past it in time.

And for Seahawks who said he wants his house and dog back, well just play a Waylon (Wailing) Jennings song...BACKWARDS! You will get it ALL back. laugh
i hearya bro, thats playin country n western backwards.!!! cheers mate.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh drinker

Unique2468's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:01 PM

Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Thing is, at this moment someone is really happy. Not that your in pain, but that you broke up. You'll meet him some time, and figure out who he is, and he will think god i'm so glad i got to meet her, and i'm so glad that she's not with those idiots anymore. He will be the same guy that makes you requestion everything in life, and wonder how things like that exist.

seahawks's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:03 PM


Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Thing is, at this moment someone is really happy. Not that your in pain, but that you broke up. You'll meet him some time, and figure out who he is, and he will think god i'm so glad i got to meet her, and i'm so glad that she's not with those idiots anymore. He will be the same guy that makes you requestion everything in life, and wonder how things like that exist.
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DawnMarie1964's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:06 PM


Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


I'm not sure it has anything to do with the sense of being *alone again*, unless you are a miserable person by yourself in all situations. If that's the case, then seek therapy.

I think it hurts so much because you loved, and lost. Loss hurts and sucks. Simple as that.

Grieve, cry, mourn, and move past it in time.

And for Seahawks who said he wants his house and dog back, well just play a Waylon (Wailing) Jennings song...BACKWARDS! You will get it ALL back. laugh

Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:07 PM
No but i can walk it out like double dutchs,


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Jules0565's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:09 PM

It hurt like hell. but time cured that.


Lots of time!

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Mon 10/06/08 07:09 PM



Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


I'm not sure it has anything to do with the sense of being *alone again*, unless you are a miserable person by yourself in all situations. If that's the case, then seek therapy.

I think it hurts so much because you loved, and lost. Loss hurts and sucks. Simple as that.

Grieve, cry, mourn, and move past it in time.

And for Seahawks who said he wants his house and dog back, well just play a Waylon (Wailing) Jennings song...BACKWARDS! You will get it ALL back. laugh

Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.
you bet its ok. its hell moving on from a failed relationship. frown

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Mon 10/06/08 07:10 PM

Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


it is painful just to try and have it not work out for whatever reason. and loneliness is always hard. everyone needs affection and companionship and also affectionate companionship all rolled into one too!

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Mon 10/06/08 07:12 PM


Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


it is painful just to try and have it not work out for whatever reason. and loneliness is always hard. everyone needs affection and companionship and also affectionate companionship all rolled into one too!

flowerforyou
exactly glasses

DawnMarie1964's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:13 PM


Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Thing is, at this moment someone is really happy. Not that your in pain, but that you broke up. You'll meet him some time, and figure out who he is, and he will think god i'm so glad i got to meet her, and i'm so glad that she's not with those idiots anymore. He will be the same guy that makes you requestion everything in life, and wonder how things like that exist.


You don't by any chance have his number or e-mail address, do you?
LOL
Seriously though, I know that you're probably right. I just hate this process of elimination.

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Mon 10/06/08 07:13 PM

Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.


Personally, I HATE that stupid sh*t of people saying blantantly "get over it". explode

Big difference of getting over it and getting *through* it.

Best of luck to you. flowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:15 PM


Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.


Personally, I HATE that stupid sh*t of people saying blantantly "get over it". explode

Big difference of getting over it and getting *through* it.

Best of luck to you. flowerforyou
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Mon 10/06/08 07:15 PM



flowerforyou smokin

Thanks for the flowers, but will someone PLEASE tell me what the heck the snorkeler means!


It means smoking is great smokin smokin smokin smokin smokin


DawnMarie1964's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:23 PM


Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.


Personally, I HATE that stupid sh*t of people saying blantantly "get over it". explode

Big difference of getting over it and getting *through* it.

Best of luck to you. flowerforyou
A very sincere thank you. I had to peek at your profile. You are an intriguing man. Some woman will be very proud to have you at her side some day.

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Mon 10/06/08 07:24 PM



Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.


Personally, I HATE that stupid sh*t of people saying blantantly "get over it". explode

Big difference of getting over it and getting *through* it.

Best of luck to you. flowerforyou
A very sincere thank you. I had to peek at your profile. You are an intriguing man. Some woman will be very proud to have you at her side some day.
cheers to us intriguing men. drinks

DawnMarie1964's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:27 PM




Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.


Personally, I HATE that stupid sh*t of people saying blantantly "get over it". explode

Big difference of getting over it and getting *through* it.

Best of luck to you. flowerforyou
A very sincere thank you. I had to peek at your profile. You are an intriguing man. Some woman will be very proud to have you at her side some day.
cheers to us intriguing men. drinks


Yes Rare, you are most definitely included in that description!

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Mon 10/06/08 07:28 PM

A very sincere thank you. I had to peek at your profile. You are an intriguing man. Some woman will be very proud to have you at her side some day.


A very sincere "your welcome".

Thanks for peeking, finding me intriguing, and saying some woman would be proud to have me at her side.

Could you call my exwife and tell her your thoughts based on my simply typed words/thoughts? :laughing:

DawnMarie1964's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:28 PM
Edited by DawnMarie1964 on Mon 10/06/08 07:29 PM
what BTW
Are we ever going to have the pleasure of knowing your name?
Both Rare and Breathless

DawnMarie1964's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:30 PM


A very sincere thank you. I had to peek at your profile. You are an intriguing man. Some woman will be very proud to have you at her side some day.


A very sincere "your welcome".

Thanks for peeking, finding me intriguing, and saying some woman would be proud to have me at her side.

Could you call my exwife and tell her your thoughts based on my simply typed words/thoughts? :laughing:

Pass me her number! Someone should!

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Mon 10/06/08 07:43 PM





Thank god someone says to cry and grieve is ok. I'm so tired of ppl saying to just get over it!
Thanks everyone.


Personally, I HATE that stupid sh*t of people saying blantantly "get over it". explode

Big difference of getting over it and getting *through* it.

Best of luck to you. flowerforyou
A very sincere thank you. I had to peek at your profile. You are an intriguing man. Some woman will be very proud to have you at her side some day.
cheers to us intriguing men. drinks


Yes Rare, you are most definitely included in that description!
hehe cheers dawn drinks