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Topic: OK I just don't get it
hippieguy24 Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 82	Sat 10/04/08 09:59 PM
In all honesty I get it in my head that I'm just going to come off as the average shallow guy thats just out to get laid.. and thats a bigger shot to the ego than actually getting rejected. I'd rather just be happy being alone than be treated like my intentions were less than.. honerable?

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Sat 10/04/08 10:00 PM
OK, let me try. Nice ti...... I mean, hi! nnnnooooooooo good try tho What's wrong with saying nice tits anyway? I thought women liked compliments?!! Well....I just wouldn't use it as your opener, is all. With a different approach, she might even let you see them eventually! So how would you suggest to approach a woman then?!

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sat 10/04/08 10:00 PM
In all honesty I get it in my head that I'm just going to come off as the average shallow guy thats just out to get laid.. and thats a bigger shot to the ego than actually getting rejected. I'd rather just be happy being alone than be treated like my intentions were less than.. honerable? That's sad...you just need to have a little confidence in yourself

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 10/04/08 10:00 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?"

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Sat 10/04/08 10:01 PM
I thought I would bring this up... WHY are people so scared to approach the opposit sex??? Rejection?? OK... so you MIGHT get rejected by someone you don't even know and is a total stranger to you. Big deal. You'll prob never even see that person again. Guys always say it's so hard to talk to women... REALLY?? How difficult is "hello"? I'm not afraid to say "hello", but what winds up happening is I'll say "HI" at the top of my lungs.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 10/04/08 10:02 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" yea... I've heard that one. My response is I have more irish in me than you can handle lil boy

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Sat 10/04/08 10:02 PM
OK, let me try. Nice ti...... I mean, hi! nnnnooooooooo good try tho What's wrong with saying nice tits anyway? I thought women liked compliments?!! Well....I just wouldn't use it as your opener, is all. With a different approach, she might even let you see them eventually! So how would you suggest to approach a woman then?! Use that great sense of humor you've got...make her laugh! Fun and flirty = minimal rejection.

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Sat 10/04/08 10:02 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" Doesn't work so well in Ireland! (and the old ones are the best, eh Goof?! lol)

hippieguy24 Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 82	Sat 10/04/08 10:02 PM
In all honesty I get it in my head that I'm just going to come off as the average shallow guy thats just out to get laid.. and thats a bigger shot to the ego than actually getting rejected. I'd rather just be happy being alone than be treated like my intentions were less than.. honerable? That's sad...you just need to have a little confidence in yourself lol, well I appreciate the advice, but you have the wrong idea.. I really don't need another person to validate the person I am. I have too much pride, I suppose :P

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sat 10/04/08 10:03 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" Ohhh Goof your just soooooooooooooo not right

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Sat 10/04/08 10:03 PM
OK, let me try. Nice ti...... I mean, hi! nnnnooooooooo good try tho What's wrong with saying nice tits anyway? I thought women liked compliments?!! Well....I just wouldn't use it as your opener, is all. With a different approach, she might even let you see them eventually! So how would you suggest to approach a woman then?! Use that great sense of humor you've got...make her laugh! Fun and flirty = minimal rejection. makes note Laughing = knickers off. Thanks!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 10/04/08 10:04 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" Doesn't work so well in Ireland! (and the old ones are the best, eh Goof?! lol) So true. But ya know, I used that line one night and it worked cause the girl "Got it" that I was merely being silly and breaking the ice.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 10/04/08 10:04 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" Doesn't work so well in Ireland! (and the old ones are the best, eh Goof?! lol) you just add to the reasons I wanna go to Ireland

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 10/04/08 10:05 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" Ohhh Goof your just soooooooooooooo not right But that's why you wuv me.

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Sat 10/04/08 10:06 PM
OK, let me try. Nice ti...... I mean, hi! nnnnooooooooo good try tho What's wrong with saying nice tits anyway? I thought women liked compliments?!! Well....I just wouldn't use it as your opener, is all. With a different approach, she might even let you see them eventually! So how would you suggest to approach a woman then?! Use that great sense of humor you've got...make her laugh! Fun and flirty = minimal rejection. makes note Laughing = knickers off. Thanks! We've obvioulsy got more than ONE goof here tonight! Just don't be suprised when her response is "nice, ass"....and it's NOT a compliment! I'm just saying....

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sat 10/04/08 10:07 PM
I must admit you are entertaining at times

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Sat 10/04/08 10:09 PM
OK, let me try. Nice ti...... I mean, hi! nnnnooooooooo good try tho What's wrong with saying nice tits anyway? I thought women liked compliments?!! I like compliments but not vulgarity. Am just kidding! Sheesh! OK, but don't let it happen again.

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Sat 10/04/08 10:11 PM
Guy: "Hey baby...Do ya have any Irish in ya?" Girl: "Noooo!" Guy: "Would you like too?" Doesn't work so well in Ireland! (and the old ones are the best, eh Goof?! lol) So true. But ya know, I used that line one night and it worked cause the girl "Got it" that I was merely being silly and breaking the ice. Did she "get it" later that night too?! lol you just add to the reasons I wanna go to Ireland Aww thanks! I'm actually planning on leaving Ireland but you should still visit, it's a beautiful country! Just don't be suprised when her response is "nice, ass"....and it's NOT a compliment! I'm just saying.. Noted! lol! As a matter of fact (and I am sure you are not interested) women tend to approach me. My female friends are split between it being due to my height and my baby face but hey, am not going to lose sleep over it!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 10/04/08 10:12 PM
How bout those guys who, when they see a girl in a bar that they find hot, they order her a drink, and then walk up and expect conversation? It is a good play, but some women take the drink and ignore ya. My advice...talk first...then buy drink later.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sat 10/04/08 10:13 PM
I thought I would bring this up... WHY are people so scared to approach the opposit sex??? Rejection?? OK... so you MIGHT get rejected by someone you don't even know and is a total stranger to you. Big deal. You'll prob never even see that person again. Guys always say it's so hard to talk to women... REALLY?? How difficult is "hello"? pretty hard when you have no self confidence, and always seem to get rejected. its not a matter of how hard it is, but how much it just seems to hurt no matter how hard you expect it.